u/Archaic_Arc

"Gaslight" is a term that comes from an mid-20th century play that was later adapted into a movie of the same title. It's about a man who slowly tries to convince his wife she's going insane to get away with a murder (unfortunately he gets caught in the finale). The term is specifically from the gas lights in the home that seem to dim without being touched.

Gaslighting is currently defined as: "psychological manipulation of a person usually over an extended period of time that causes the victim to question the validity of their own thoughts, perception of reality, or memories and typically leads to confusion, loss of confidence and self-esteem, uncertainty of one's emotional or mental stability." For the girls reading this who couldn't understand all those big words it means: being slowly lied to and tricked into not trusting your own thoughts and sanity.

I used to think gaslighting was just feminist propaganda, but its not. Its a real thing. Its good for women and one of a man's most powerful tools in pursuit of complete ownership, correction and leadership of cunts.

You use gaslighting to support your agenda, and deter her from hers. For me its a domestic bitch in heat who wants only to support me and keep me happy. Who ruined her career and isolated herself into my life. One who believes she can't function without me.

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How to Gaslight

This isn't a perfect list, most of these steps must be done simultaneously, and gently. Ramping up as you go, but generally...

1. Create an addict.

-You've got to be charming first. Gaslighting is a patient process. Calling a bitch crazy off the bat will only lead to loneliness. Be charming at first and make them want your attention and affection. Every bitch wants different things, on the front end, be her prince charming.

2. Remember every mistake and make sure she remembers too.

-Write it down in a hidden folder if you must, but remember every mistake she makes and remind her of them. Frame it lovingly and sweetly, as a service to her. "Remember the last time you tried to...?", "You aren't very good at ..., remember when...?"

This will begin to sew seeds of doubt in her and make her start to question her own ability to do things. Eventually with patience and skill she'll start coming to you for solutions to her problems, and you can suggest solutions that suit you best. If she resists, get annoyed and withdraw. "Why ask me for help if you won't listen? You couldn't do it last time by yourself, see how it goes this time." This also helps in beginning to isolate her.

3. Never accept blame/responsibility and shift it onto her

-It's never your fault. Clearly she's hysterical, on her period or just misunderstood you and your intentions. Help her see that.

"You're being so sensitive." Make her doubt her reaction and shift the blame. You're not wrong she's clearly overreacting.

"It was only a joke!" - Same as above.

"This is your fault darling..." - be careful with this one. If you can support it it can be VERY effective in showing her how incapable she really is, but if she can disprove you it discredits you, which you want to avoid at all costs

"I was trying to help you." - This one goes well with the last step of making them doubt their abilities

"You made me do it" - it's probably better if you just solve it for her. Especially if your solution is good for you and bad for her. Just make sure she knows she forced you to solve her problem cause you couldn't stand to see her upset/troubled. It was an act of love.

4. Make her question her memory.

-It's best to talk with a girl, not text cause the petty bitch can get proof. This is much easier in person where most things are simply said. Make her question her memory and make her feel forgetful and unable to retain the important stuff.

"That's not what happened" - Straight up lie to her. It's gotta start small, change phrases and words but keep the meaning, then slowly change the meaning till you can convince her she's completely misremembering and make up whatever you want.

-Cite your friends - if you've got friends or other pets who are on the same page, get them to back you up and support your lie. If it's 3 on 1 most people back down, even if she doesn't, stand your ground and agree to disagree. It'll slowly erode her faith in her memory.

-Mess with her surroundings - Again easier in person. Change the pictures in frames and swear it was always that picture of you two. Move her keys and purse and insist you literally watched her put them there when she can't find them, how is she so forgetful? Change the avatar on her profiles/background on her phone and insist you two did it together cause of an inside joke last time you were drinking together. Turn the alarm off on her phone so she's late for social events/work/appointments.

5. Make them insecure

-Use their insecurities against them, if no one else likes them, at least you do.

"Why can't you be more like..." - don't pick one her friends off the bat. Maybe a sibling or a colleague who's the golden xhild/ usually out performs her at work. But once you start to really control her definitely use her friends. Make her insecure AND resent her friend at the same time. She doesn't have friends, she has competition.

"This is why you don't have friends" - Make her feel like a bitch, unlikable, undesirable, faulted. It's her fault that people are leaving her and you're being SO patient with her and not leaving yourself.

5. Every reaction is an overreaction

-Convince her not to trust her instincts and feelings and to trust yours instead and to rely on you.

"You're overreacting/ being so sensitive/being crazy.", "Stop being hysterical", "It's not a big deal", "This isn't who I started dating...", "stop exaggerating" are all good examples to belittle and trivialize her emotions and concerns. With the last step, this is good to use with making her insecure. "You're overreacting, why can't you be calmer like your sister?" "It's not a big deal babe, your freaking out over nothing. This is why your friends stopped hanging out with you, you're so dramatic It's tiring."

6. Isolate her

-Every friend and family member she has that she trusts is an anchor to her sanity and control, and a life line for her to escape. Its paramount you sever them.

-Use all the above steps to isolate her. Make her distrust herself and her trust in her friends and family. Point out every time her friends, family and colleagues let her down, made her upset, or betrayed her trust. Help her to forget the things she needs for work, school or family gatherings so she looks like an idiot. It'll help her be nervous and reluctant to even see them in the first place. Help her get mad at her family, agitate natural family tensions and fuel her resentment so she estranges them at the sime time you are. It's a lot easier if she has ✨️Daddy Issues✨️ to begin with.

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Gaslighting is Good for girls. They're weak, silly, incompetent little things that need a males hand and guidance to be happy and successful, even if they don't want it or understand that. Even if that werent true, successfully gaslighting a girl is the best way to get yourself an obedient little fleshlight who believes she cant function without you.

Men, gaslighting is a lengthy process that requires patience and skill. You might not get it your first time, but keep at it and soon you'll find a susceptible little cunt to control completely.

Girls, if you want to be gaslit do your best to not pay attention to your surroundings and the situation. Delete texts so you can't go back to verify what was said, set snap to delete after viewing. Do your best to break habits like always putting your keys/purse in the same place. If you don't have these habits you'll be easier to mess with. Don't ask questions of your man, don't ask him to go in depth explaining himself, just trust him. He knows best.