u/Ares142

This might not be the right subchat. but i want to quit this habit. Its just too time consuming, and i hate how hyperfixated i get searching websites, reviews, etc. I just unloaded myself and no urge now (post nut clarity), so maybe masturbation is a temporary tool, but id like advice from others. For context i also have adhd, used to be addicted to drugs, so neurologically my brain is wired for short term gratification. Its definitely a problem, because its getting in the way of my academics and honestly it doesnt align with who I want to be moving forward. Plus theres the fear of sexuallv transmitted diseases/infections. all the money spent, lowering self esteem and confidence cause im not actually getting girls (only from paying them) etc. So any tips or realisations or anything feel free to share.

"Unlike you, I am never worried about being seen walking in or out of a shop. The big issue for me is that most shops have security cameras at their reception and corridors, and they record the punters for god-knows how long. It's not an Epstein-type setup, but we should all be concerned in case such recordings are used one day, even by police in legal cases" - from aus99

This was the only thing i was worried about at Zen Massage (which i highly recommend, women there are amazing, ask to see whose available so you can pick one you like) cause like the cameras inside and everything. I understand its probably for their safety, but yea lol, ive only being zen once and havent been since just cause of that, anyone else feels the same way?

Anyone know the names of masseuses working today at Bliss Body who are hot, fit, big boobs and ass, not fat, etc. Sounds like Ella is amazing according to a couple people here, but she apparently doesn't work today. Like are they all good, any advice, etc. I remember when I called Zen in Rooty Hill, I asked if there were younger women available, and before paying I asked to see who was available and got a great one (forgot her name lol).

https://www.239liverpool.com.au/kamila

Called in and booked Kamila, cause her physique on the website looked incredible. On the call, I asked the guy if the pictures were actually real he was like yea. When I came, I said I wanted to first see her before I paid. The asian guy was so against it, saying I'm the second person who had asked for it and that it was a waste of time. I was like but you do understand where we are coming from right, and why would it be a problem to see her if shes real cause ill pay straight after right. Well reluctantly he brings her, and god bless her but so different to the pictures. On the website she looks thick (fit wise) but in person she was way more on the fat side. Did not look at all like the person in the pictures posted. Don't know if the pictures are photoshopped, a different person, or her from the past when she used to be fit. When she left, I was like to the asian guy, now you understand us, and he was like no I don't, and i was like its not the same as the pictures, and he was like then why would you book. I didn't bother replying to him, but i really wish I went up to him and opened the pictures on my phone and asked him, do you think this is the exact same person as the one that came in. If he said yes, I would say I think you need to go specsavers, or I would believe he knew that which is why he didnt want me to see before hand. I'm proud of myself for standing my boundaries, asking to see her first and then leaving after it was fake, because in the past id paid and then when I saw the masseuse who was so different (in a bad way) to the pictures posted, i was so turnt off and back then I just wouldn't say anything but not anymore. So yea, id personally advise you guys to steer clear from this place.