u/ArrianaReid

Ladies, do you prefer your men dominant or submissive?

Hi ladies! I’m posting out of curiosity. I recently met up with an old friend. We’ve been friends since before the pandemic but we weren’t really super close back then. In the past years, our paths have crossed more often and we became closer. We haven’t actually done anything sexual yet but there’s intense sexual tension especially recently. I noticed recently, in public and with other friends, he’s usually very dominant and always does or goes with what he wants or prefers but in private with me, he follows everything I say even when it seems ridiculous or bossy.

Recently I’ve tried testing it out more. I’ve been telling him what to do more and more when we’re together. He doesn’t protest, he always does everything and usually with a smile on his face. I’ve been with dominant men all my life so I’m pretty curious now and excited to see that he’s more submissive. Now my question is this: Ladies, do you prefer submissive men or dominant men? Especially in the bedroom. I used to think that I’d always prefer dominant men but seeing him following my instructions like a good boy is intriguing to me. If you prefer being with a submissive person, how do you make your sexual encounters with them not tiring? Usually when I take charge in my public life, it exhausts me cause it takes a lot of energy to be in charge. Any opinions and/or stories are welcome.

Cheers!

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u/ArrianaReid — 12 days ago