u/Asleep_Coffee_7909

35 [M4F] - Looking for a cute voyeur friend to watch me jerk off

Hey there, thanks for checking out my post. I'm sure I don't really have to go into detail about all of the everything going on at the moment that's stressful as hell, but on top of the country being on fire, both work and family stuff have also been a lot and frankly, I'm just exhausted. And maybe a bit lonely and fairly pent up when I actually have a free moment to process. I'd really love to find someone to help me relieve some of that very built up stress, and maybe even make a friend in the process. I've also got more than a tiny exhibitionist streak, hence the wanting you to watch me masturbate. Don't know what it is, but it gets me off really hard, and it'd be even better if you'd be down to show off for me as you watch. I'm hoping for an ongoing thing, and I'd love to do this in person, but if not online is great too.

A little about me, aside from being bored, lonely, and horny: I'm a software developer by trade, and while I like my job, it tends to drive me a little bit crazy. I guess I would have to admit I'm a fairly nerdy dude, as my interests and hobbies mostly include gaming, and I am huge bookworm (mostly fantasy and sci fi). I'm also relatively interested in sports, and I've been a musician most of my life, but I like to pretend I can have a conversation on a wide variety of topics. I'm also trying very hard to convince myself that I like running and it's not solely motivated by the desire to be able to eat what I want without getting fat, so if you want to help with that too, bonus points. I'm about 6'1, in thoroughly average shape, dark brown hair, hazel eyes, black rimmed glasses like the cool kid I am. I also have no issue sending both sfw and nsfw photos if we seem like a good fit.

As far as what I'm looking for, well, like the title says I'm looking for someone who I can be friends with, but who is also into the idea of regularly watching me masturbate. I'm also into a whole bunch of other things, and I'm 100% down to explore other kinks, but I also gotta satisfy the exhibitionist in me. But always down to explore other things as long as everyone involved is comfortable. Big time bonus points if you also enjoy gaming or any of my other hobbies, as I'd love to have someone to talk to about them as well, but if you aren't too into that kind of stuff but are still interested, please feel free to message me anyway, it's by no means a requirement! I hope to hear from you, and maybe we can have some fun!

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u/Asleep_Coffee_7909 — 4 days ago

Just to get this out of the way immediately, this is not a race play or fetish thing, as those make me uncomfortable. I just think asian girls are pretty and that's really all there is to this.

Anyway, Hi! Thank you for taking your time to check out my post! It's been a little (lotta) bit of a stressful time for me lately, so I figured why not reach out to reddit to see if I can find someone for a fun distraction to help take my mind off things. Obviously I'm 100% okay with either a handjob or a blowjob from the title, but I'm also into edging, orgasm control, a healthy dose of exhibitionism, and more that I'm probably not thinking of right now, so if any of those interest you, or if you have any other kinks you'd like to explore as part of this I like to think of myself as pretty adventurous, so I'm more than happy to talk about them!

As far as my about me, I'm 35, a sort of jack of all trades software dev by day, and definitively a giant nerd by night. I have a whole bunch of nerdy hobbies, but reading and (to a significantly lesser extent) gaming are the ones I probably spend the most time with, and I'm a huge fantasy/sci fi fan. I'm also into some crafting type hobbies, working with my hands, playing music, and a whole bunch of other things that I'd love to talk about. I do my level best to be a pretty chill and easy to talk to guy, and I'd love for you to tell me all about your interests as well! Physically I'm about 6'1, an approximation of a dad bod I suppose, short curly brown hair, black rimmed glasses since I never outgrew my emo phase, and forever struggling to turn my average shape into good. Also more than happy to exchange pictures or do whatever you need me to in order to feel comfortable, as safety and comfort for both parties is extremely important to me.

Other than I guess the aforementioned asian girl, I don't really have any sort of hard requirements other than be chill, be ddf, and that the vibe is good. I know it's a casual kind of thing from reddit, but having at least a level of "you seem like a cool person" connection is important to me to really enjoy this kind of thing. If you happen to see this post and you're not asian but still interested, please don't hesitate to reach out anyway! I'm always looking/happy to connect with awesome people to have a good time. Thank you for taking the time to read my post, and I hope to hear from you, but if not I wish you the best of luck in your reddit endeavors!

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u/Asleep_Coffee_7909 — 18 days ago
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Just to get this out of the way immediately, this is not a race play or fetish thing, as those make me uncomfortable. I just think asian girls are pretty and that's really all there is to this.

Anyway, Hi! Thank you for taking your time to check out my post! It's been a little (lotta) bit of a stressful time for me lately, so I figured why not reach out to reddit to see if I can find someone for a fun distraction to help take my mind off things. Obviously I'm 100% okay with either a handjob or a blowjob from the title, but I'm also into edging, orgasm control, a healthy dose of exhibitionism, and more that I'm probably not thinking of right now, so if any of those interest you, or if you have any other kinks you'd like to explore as part of this I like to think of myself as pretty adventurous, so I'm more than happy to talk about them!

As far as my about me, I'm 35, a sort of jack of all trades software dev by day, and definitively a giant nerd by night. I have a whole bunch of nerdy hobbies, but reading and (to a significantly lesser extent) gaming are the ones I probably spend the most time with, and I'm a huge fantasy/sci fi fan. I'm also into some crafting type hobbies, working with my hands, playing music, and a whole bunch of other things that I'd love to talk about. I do my level best to be a pretty chill and easy to talk to guy, and I'd love for you to tell me all about your interests as well! Physically I'm about 6'1, short curly brown hair, black rimmed glasses since I never outgrew my emo phase, and in pretty thoroughly average shape, though I am forever struggling to turn that average into good. Also more than happy to exchange pictures or do whatever you need me to in order to feel comfortable, as safety and comfort for both parties is extremely important to me.

Other than I guess the aforementioned asian girl, I don't really have any sort of hard requirements other than be chill, be ddf, and that the vibe is good. I know it's a casual kind of thing from reddit, but having at least a level of "you seem like a cool person" connection is important to me to really enjoy this kind of thing. If you happen to see this post and you're not asian but still interested, please don't hesitate to reach out anyway! I'm always looking/happy to connect with awesome people to have a good time. Thank you for taking the time to read my post, and I hope to hear from you, but if not I wish you the best of luck in your reddit endeavors!

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u/Asleep_Coffee_7909 — 18 days ago

Hey there, thanks for checking out my post. I'm sure I don't really have to go into detail about all of the everything going on at the moment that's stressful as hell, but on top of the country being on fire, both work and family stuff have also been a lot and frankly, I'm just exhausted. And maybe a bit lonely and fairly pent up when I actually have a free moment to process. I'd really love to find someone to help me relieve some of that very built up stress, and maybe even make a friend in the process. I've also got more than a tiny exhibitionist streak, hence the wanting you to watch me masturbate. Don't know what it is, but it gets me off really hard, and it'd be even better if you'd be down to show off for me as you watch. I'm hoping for an ongoing thing, and I'd love to do this in person, but if not online is great too.

A little about me, aside from being bored, lonely, and horny: I'm a software developer by trade, and while I like my job, it tends to drive me a little bit crazy. I guess I would have to admit I'm a fairly nerdy dude, as my interests and hobbies mostly include gaming, and I am huge bookworm (mostly fantasy and sci fi). I'm also relatively interested in sports, and I've been a musician most of my life, but I like to pretend I can have a conversation on a wide variety of topics. I'm also trying very hard to convince myself that I like running and it's not solely motivated by the desire to be able to eat what I want without getting fat, so if you want to help with that too, bonus points. I'm about 6'1, in thoroughly average shape, dark brown hair, hazel eyes, black rimmed glasses like the cool kid I am. I also have no issue sending both sfw and nsfw photos if we seem like a good fit.

As far as what I'm looking for, well, like the title says I'm looking for someone who I can be friends with, but who is also into the idea of regularly watching me masturbate. I'm also into a whole bunch of other things, and I'm 100% down to explore other kinks, but I also gotta satisfy the exhibitionist in me. But always down to explore other things as long as everyone involved is comfortable. Big time bonus points if you also enjoy gaming or any of my other hobbies, as I'd love to have someone to talk to about them as well, but if you aren't too into that kind of stuff but are still interested, please feel free to message me anyway, it's by no means a requirement! I hope to hear from you, and maybe we can have some fun!

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u/Asleep_Coffee_7909 — 22 days ago