u/AspiringGoodBoy

Did you ever have a friend you just wanted to toy with? Get in his head, and see what kind of little switches and buttons you could find?

Me: Masc 40 married. Normally in charge, I'm a CEO, Dad/bear type physically, beard, large build. Everyone in my life thinks of me as the in charge type.

I'm looking for someone who, like me, enjoys writing and conversing and communicating. Looking to get to know someone and develop a friendship.

I don't mind sending pictures so that we know each other looks like, and regularly exchanging pictures that way friends do. But I'm not really looking for task and picture based humiliation.

I'm looking for more subtle, mental and emotional domination and humiliation. A friend who brings me in and gradually starts reinforcing dominance over me. Making me understand my role as beneath him. I'm changing the way I think about myself. Gaining control over me, chuckling with pleasure as he realized he can get me to do what he wants. Realizing that not only has he made a friend, he's also gaining a worshiper, pet, play thing.

Some of my kinks: mental and emotional manipulation and control, brainwashing and hypnosis, rules and protocols, verbal abuse, pet play, humiliation, degradation, also have a foot fetish if that's useful to you for control purposes.

Limits: Scat, minors, blackmail, dangerous / illegal, public, anything that puts job or marriage at risk.

I actually totally get off on being bullied, and it's a big fantasy of mine for a guy to do just whatever he wants to humiliate me. I would love to find a dude who has that kind of little sadistic streak to him, who would enjoy being able to bully someone without feeling bad about it. If this appeals to you at all I'd love to talk more.