Any time I get with someone new my dick gets Stage fright and won't stay hard lol it makes it really awkward and most times it ends it there however the occasional time I get a 2nd chance im good to go but those are rare haha
As usually they are disappointed by it not staying or getting hard lol
Guess ill try to stroke one out really should invest in a toy lol
I'm male and in my 30s and never been with someone that liked getting head (no can't be cause I'm bad cause they literally never wanted me to and I never really pushed for it once they said no besides the occasional ask but always been same answer lol) I figured both parties should like it and enjoy themselves
besides I know myself I cant enjoy myself unless my partner does