u/AuthenticCourage

Getting into plugging

My situation is unusual.
I live together with my two keyholders. I sleep in one bed for two nights and the other bed for two nights.

Both keyholders have their own key. They unlock me when they want to. They don’t communicate with each other about their ideas of when to unlock me. They are both straight and have zero sexual interest in each other.

The consequence is that both women want to have sex on the nights they are with me. And in the mornings as well on many mornings.

You would think that two keyholders would lead to more sex, because there’s twice the chance I’ll get unlocked. But they both seem to be on the same page with very infrequent unlocks for me.

And I get a huge amount of sex. Since they see me for two nights and they have a two night break, they have sex most days I’m with them. They’re having sex every so often but it’s always with me. So I’m getting a lot.

So if I’m with Louise, say on Monday and Tuesday and Friday and Saturday, she wlll typically instruct me to give her an orgasm on three of those evening and three of those mornings.

Susan is more demanding. Let’s say that week i’m with her on Wednesday Thursday and Sunday. We have sex every night without exception. She will often instruct me to give her an orgasm in the early hours if one of us wakes up to go to the toilet or if we simply can’t sleep. On a Sunday morning we will have sex at 6am when we wake up and again at 8am when we finally get out of bed to feed kids and engage with the weekend.

We have a hot tub which I use with Susan in the summer. She will often have three or more orgasms in the hot tub when we’re in it, no matter if it’s my day with her or not. Louise is hardly ever in the tub and even then, she and I are never alone in it.

What this means in practice is that i’m having sex multiple times a day every single day. The only exception is occasionally Louise will not want sex on my first night with her or on the morning of my second night with her. If she doesn’t have sex on her second night with me, then I have a rare 36 hours where I have no sexual activity at all.

I think that’s happened 3 times this year, where I have had a day with no sex.

Louise has not had PIV with me this year. I’ve been pussyfree with her since 17 December 2025.

In fact we had PIV only three times in 2025, 15-17 December for a glorious 3-day unlocked period.

I’ve come twice with Louise this year. A blowjob in March and a caged orgasm the other day.

I’ve been luckier with Susan, but even with her there was a 60 day stretch with no orgasm for me. I got a blowjob on 8 April and the next time I came was 7 June.

I also have another girlfriend who does not have a key.

I have only had caged sex with her, and I see her infrequently, only 9 times this year. I have never orgasmed with her.

We’re 169 days into 2026 and i’ve had sex 378 times.
I’m frustrated but boy, am I happy!

Which option would you choose?