u/BelaMeow

I am someone who enjoys the foreplay more that the act and I am looking to chat with someone who is mature, understanding, respectful and has a good sense of humour. But he knows how to balance being naughty or kinky while respecting consent and being respectful.

Someone who is not in a rush, wants to build a rapport or connection and not want to get down and dirty straightaway.

Not looking to sext but can roleplay if we vibe. I enjoy the world building more than the act.

Make me laugh and let's see how we go!

Took my scooty to repair a puncture and there was this man, probably older than 50. Constantly wanting to start a conversation. Giving unsolicited advice. Finding reasons to touch. And not even going to talk about the stares and oogling.

All these middle aged men around 40 or 50 are such despos yaar. Trying to be all extra sweet and giving advice no one asked to younger women. I can still understand younger guys wanting to impress or be noticed. But what kind of mid age crisis is this? I am like Khao piyo so jao apne biwi ke sath.

Has anyone else had such an experience?

I’m 27 F and I work as a nurse. Honestly, my life has become just work, sleep, repeat. Long exhausting shifts, night duties and by the time I reach home I’m too drained to even scroll Instagram properly, let alone go out and meet people. Dating or having any kind of social life feels like something I left behind in long ago. I keep telling myself “next month I’ll make time” but that next month never comes.

After months of begging for leave, me and my two closest friends finally got the same off days and decided bas, we’re going. Just a quick girls’ trip to a beach town. No big itinerary, just good food, some Insta-worthy pictures, and actual sleep without alarms.

One evening we were sitting at this poolside spot with music playing and the sunset looking unreal. A group of four college guys (they looked around 20-21 max) sat nearby. At first we were like “ignore karo,” but they seemed so polite and genuinely funny that we slowly started chatting. Within an hour we had merged tables. There was so much laughter, silly games, and even danced. Everything felt so light and easy.

Me and one of my friends really clicked with two of them. The vibe was playful but respectful. Later that night the four of us went for a walk away from the crowd and one thing led to another. We ended up having a no-strings-attached night.

It was my first ever NSA experience, and also my first time with a younger guy. I was a bit wary but he was more nervous as hell in the beginning, but it turned out to be one of the most fun, carefree nights I’ve had in a long time. For once I wasn’t tired and bored to and I actually felt young, desired, and alive.

Next morning there was zero awkwardness. No numbers exchanged, no Instagram follows, no fake “let’s keep in touch.” Just a simple hug and goodbye.

I still catch myself smiling randomly when I think about it. I don’t regret it at all. After so long of only working non-stop, doing something purely for myself felt so damn good.

Not her for anything creepy, just had to put this out there.