u/Bemorethanbig

Coming into my 3rd year of PE.

WOW what a journey, you can see all my posts of wifey sex success.

I still remember day 1, saying, If I can just get to 5.75 NBPEL (from 5.5) I would be happy. I could never even imagine I would ever even get to 6 NBPEL.

Ofcourse you get there and all you want is more. I will say that 6.25 NBPEL has been amazing but girth has been an unexpected game changer. Holding a fat hog and giving it to wifey has been something so golden (and that's just water pumping(not bathmate).

Like many I started with no idea that I wanted girth, then you get it, then you know the grass is greener on the other side.

Well, many will ask what I do.. It's basically the hink trial and everything BD says.

Only ONE secret! You should NEVER feel any discomfort in PE, and you must trust the process; PE is measured in years, not months. This is a water-on-rock mentality, not pouring a gallon of water on a rock.

Get those gains. Notice I am talking about 3/4 inch gain, well below the 2 inch talk people talk about here.

How do I know PE works?

Just last night wifey said in bed, you feel so long, you are so thick. In 14 years of marriage, I never got those compliments and we had sex over 1,000 times before PE.

This one is a but interesting. Never heard of this site. I was looking into women that experience vagina loose days before period and found this site. You may have seen my post where wifey gives me no compliments of Big D before her period and it messed with my mind.

Pretty darn cool!

If more women did this, more women would not rely on the guy to do everything. We would have less size queen drama, as we would tell them, do your part too!

A community dedicated to learning & spreading the word about the ancient practice of Pompoir (a.k.a. “vaginal gymnastics) where women master control of their vaginal muscles to squeeze, milk, lock, tilt, suck, pulse, and twist their partners. 

**Not sure about twist the partner, but everything else sounds amazing!!!

This is an interesting one as I have reported. Big pussy day strikes again. See the OG post here. I have researched many articles, and this is either a woman's secret no one talks about or men are idiots and don't know it.

https://www.reddit.com/r/gettingbigger/comments/1or9rfz/protect_your_mind_from_that_huge_pussy_day_once_a/

With the question in the title. I do like being called Big D for 28 days and know that 2 days of the month her vagina is endless and we still have great sex, but don't expect any extra compliments.

The interesting point here is the reverse, what if she stuggled with your Big D (assuming she NEVER got use to it) for 28 days but on her Big pussy days she called you Big D amazing.

Since I started PE for wifey satisfaction. I am team 28 days of Big D name calling with no struggle.

An interesting topic to chat about. It's again good to know this happens to women, and it doesn't mess with your mind during your PE journey.

look like we are back to important highlights. thanks BD and all. it was getting bad with the rules part but everyone is looking for the top highlights to start PE the right way

I have an interesting topic to discuss. But let's not get into "EQ" talk this is something else.

Before PE, I got erect and I'm at my max size within a min or two.

Now after PE and my 1/2 gains in length. It takes a little longer to get to max erect size. AGAIN this is not poor eq talk. This is something I have noticed. I do still get to my max size but it takes about 2-4 minutes to get there, before it use to take 1-2 minutes.

It's taking a bit longer to get full erection and length. Now does this always happen, even to big dick men and I am just experiencing it for the first time? maybe?

I don't know what that means, and it really doesn't matter in bed. taking a little longer to get to max erect size is fine.

Two off topics.

1. when wifey is doing her BJ work, she says after 3-5 min, you are getting too big for my mouth. She never said that before PE and at my size before. She has to then just corn on the cob that D.

2. For all these PE people on the forum, you can't just get erect and measure, you need some time to get erect for longer and then measure. Too many times guys are here that they lost 1/2 inch here and there, like it's so casual to gain or lose a 1/2 inch. NO it's not.

Why is this PE? Well when greater power EQ and size comes greater need for control.

The Boi, hink put me on this from one of his videos.

Pros:

You last longer in bed

Cons:

It takes longer to finish, so quickies are off the table.

Its been amazing for me! I like that I feel like I am in control longer, I still get super hard and I last longer. It's for sure what I needed with my gains. Since sex has been even more better with my gains, and wifey gets even more loader moans, I needed this to counter me going to early.

Send a extra thanks to Hink when you post on it.

I always water pump (not bahtmate) for 3 years now so about 600 times now in that time frame. I have tried air pumping 6 times, and once when I did 3 times in a row I got an injury.

So the other day, I had pump'd around 2 pm, Sex at 11 PM, I wanted to hit a bit of girth. So I Used my bigger cylinder (BECAUSE every man that pumps should have atleast 2 cylinder sizes). Got hard, went in and as you know, Pain at base, less HG, Dick rubs on sides, uncomfortable all around. Well it got the job done, but I noticed my measured D was way less, About 6.5 in air. When I usually hit 7.25 in water pumping.

I say all this because we try to get better measurement systems here, and BPEL on here is debated and then Hink said what about measuring in the pump. Which on paper sounds great, but if you air pump, you are getting way less numbers and then get one good pump with lube and get 3/4 more of an inch.

I know the only thing that matters is what you measure and your results.

But what I am saying is that in AIR, you can (and probably will) have a more likely chance to measure wrong. AND that is an issue.

So this is the first post, i have ever seen someone talk about this, and it is food for thought.

2 inches in 2 years, guy.

Everyone: Praises him in wonder , want to know routine, think he is soooo amazing

Me: Your pictures suck, you did grow but around 3/4 of an inch. Nowhere near 2 inches. Call him out on it, get a bunch of haters. But I still have much love for dude, he posted pics and did the work and did great

1 inch in 5 years guy.

Everyone: You are jamming the ruler, you don't know how to PE, something must be wrong, you didn't grow at all

Me: WOW ! You have like the best pictures of proof ever, You are very normal in growth, great work, keep it going.

Before PE, did you ever JAM a ruler into your pubic bone? NOPE.

Even after months of doing PE, many men still don’t.

So my issue with “newbie gains” is that almost no one measures accurately at first. That’s why we get all these stories about gaining 1/2 inch in a few weeks. It’s just not real.

They didn’t measure on Day 1 the same way they measured in Month 3. HAD they measured consistently from the start, the results would be much smaller.

You’re kidding yourself and misleading others.

If I were ruler of PE for a day, I’d say this:

No measurements are counted during the first 6 weeks of PE. That’s just boot camp. We start counting at Month 2.

By then, you’ve had enough time to get your EQ in check and truly KNOW your BPEL

14 years married, a few times she would ride me or in a certain situation, my Left nut would basically creep up inside me, felt as weird as writing this.

Since doing PE, cum cocktail, and light and occasional ball stretches. I have not had my nut go back in side for about 3 years now. Don't ask what I did, just doing PE in general will do it, there is no real secret, just trust the process of PE and this might happen to you too.

Been great feeling never having to think about that.

What google says about it

Having one testicle move up into the groin during sex is a common, usually harmless, phenomenon known as a retractile testicle. This happens when the cremaster muscle contracts in response to stimulation, sexual arousal, or cold, pulling the testicle out of the scrotum into the inguinal canal. It is often described as a "shy" testicle that can be gently guided back.

Hink saved my D with manuals

I was on TP for 1 year and all I knew was jelq. They talked about hanging and like one post on pumping but it wasn't clear. I grew up Christian, all that sounded crazy to me.

Leo of Longevity saved my D from air pumping, as for me I'm only able to water pump ( not bathmate)

Coming from TP, YOU NEED A DAY OFF. Jelqing is extreme and you wear off your D, it's too much to jelq daily.

SO.

When I came here and this masked Dick vigilante tell you to do it daily you don't listen. You think this guys is crazy and extreme. You know you need days off. You do manuals and pump 3 to 5 times because you think, that's enough coming from Jelq world. Also LIVING in this world is tough, I have a full time job and family, when can I do this daily?

Anyways, I got into a fight with wifey we laid it all out, she knows I have been dealing with depression and retro active jealousy since her ex was in the 8 x 6 range (even with statistic being close to none, I KNOW LUCKY ME! )

So we fought and she said, I love your D, I loved it before but it growing has been great. At first, she said that she wondered how it was getting so big? so she thought it was her, being more sexy she was getting me harder, it's to the point now, she knows its more than EQ, which is what I told her it was for 3 years now. And so during the fight she said, so you pump your D to compare yourself to someone else. Well we both know it is what it is. Its our burden.

So since then, I said , F it, she knows I pump for EQ and I need my man time. So everynight before or after a workout, I do my pumping session. I spend extra time in the bathroom to complete my pump session of 5 min x 3 breaks. She knows when I go in there, I don't come out and she no longer asked what I am doing. Its our marriage deal.

I do manuals during work hours of laptop work at home, and I used to pump mid-day when the family was not there, but some days I'm busy , yatta yatta, it just wasn't consistent to be daily.

So this is a freaking long post...

I have pump'd now for a few weeks daily and I have broken my plateu, finally getting more EL out in the pump. I've been able to get 1/8 more out of the pump. more size updates to come as I now am doing rolling averages to get sizes and not blurt out every high and low measurement

Things to consider for all:

If you do 3-5 times a week and complain about a plateau, do you then do everyday to break it?

and or

If you do PE daily and hit a plateau, do you then go 3-5 times a day for a few months and then back to daily?

We will need months of feedback and accurate research from all but worth a dive in. As the Hink trial mentions but NO ONE talks about, its practically a daily thing, can you commit?

To end this, Everyday PE pumping is a thing, it's very hard unless you have a strict routine. If you thought doing something 3-5 times a week was tough, wait til you get to daily, it isn't tough but it's a strict routine.

Unlike my guide to Water Pumping (not bathmate)

My guide to NO Petechaie has very few views. I think it was held by MODS and then went in on a low-traffic week. I don't care it's not popular, I just care that many men still have this when there are tricks to avoid.

I talk about things, I don't think Hink talks about, but that does not mean that I don't want you to buy his Petechiae guide. I think it's 100% worth it. This is my journey, and I hope it helps. It's just that in his videos he does not talk about, what I talk about so I think it's a different approach.

Many here believe Petechiae is normal, I see some men have thier dick covered in it. I had one the size of a dime and I got freaked out. Since using my own guide I have had ZERO petechiae in 1 1/2 years.

https://www.reddit.com/r/gettingbigger/comments/1qgqc1y/bemorethanbig_guide_to_no_petechiae/

This was what I wrote 2 years ago, this was after my first 4 months of pumping and wearing a c-ring. The good times still go on to this day. I remember when I wrote this I was in shock at the level of sex I was getting. Still to this day it remains. I still only water pump (not bathmate)

Thanks to all the PE VETS! DLD, Hink, BD,

03-04-2024, 12:09 AM

Bemorethanbig

"Last night, Wifey grabbed my dick and said to me, how is this thing going inside me? I felt like a baller! We have been married 14 years and had sex over 1k times, the last three months she has moaned with the open-mouth porn face every time I pump and or use the cock ring, I started both at the same time. She also started saying, YES ..YES.. YES! in bed when going balls deep!! She has never done that before.

Stop setting goals, set objectives without limitations.

5.5 NBPEL Start~~ 5.7 NBPEL- 2011 ~~ 5.75 NBPEL/ 4.25 EG 2012 (Stop 11 years- Started again 4/2023 same stats as 2012)

6.25 NBPEL / 6.75 BPEL / 4.75 EG (5 EG w/ C-Ring over ball & shaft) / Grower 4 FL - 4/2024 ~~ (Objective 6.75 NBPEL / 7.25 BPEL / 5.25 EG & Solid EQ)"

As you may have noticed, I started saying I was thinking about doing a rolling average for a hard measurement, and I MUST.

I realized today how drastic even in 10 min how EG matters and EQ but MAX EQ matters more than just saying EQ.

You all know my drama with EQ, you either have a hard on or you don't. So many people say here, I have poor EQ, so my measurements are low. Blah blah. Then get a real hard on and measure, don't measure when it's low!

WHY?

So I will be doing PRE and Post pump rolling average starting today.

With PRE, I started getting a measurement after 2 min, I thought that was going to be it. 12.2 CM= 4.80 EG. I said yup that's my flair , thats' what I have been at all year. Then I was like, let me stay more erect. Measured 5 min in 12.5 CM= 4.92 EG. WOW I said, so maybe I did grow this last year. Then I said let me go some more. At 8 min in, Clocked in at 13 cm = 5.11 EG. That's where the story ends unfortunately. Now I will do this and measure my EG after 10 min for 3 times a week for 4 weeks, get an average, and report back.

BUT NOW YOU KNOW! With just EQ your EG can change drastic, and if a measurement you did on day 1 was low that day you may think you have grown 1 inch in 3 months but reality checks in that you just were not hard-hard on your first measurement.

Minutes in doing your measurement MATTER!!!

I honestly think, because my Post pump has grown so much in the last 2 years, my EG pre pump has grown much more than a year ago after 10 min erect because now my EG can fill up more to its fuller potential.

Post Pump:

The last two time clocking in at 5.3 EG and 5.4 EG but will do this again for a month and report back.

This is a post to say, we need more than one measurement when you claim victory, for your own sanity and for the community so we don't see such wild numbers.

For sure, my girth has increased over the past 6–9 months. Yet I don’t feel fulfilled—why? Many of us focus heavily on increasing length, and when that doesn’t happen, it can feel like we aren’t truly making progress. Even if overall volume has improved significantly, the lack of length gains can leave us dissatisfied.

This often comes down to mindset: we tend to view length as the primary measure of success.

As a result,

we might be gaining length without girth and feel satisfied.

Gaining girth without length can cause concern.

Ultimately, this is a reminder that progress is still progress—gains matter, regardless of the form they take.

It's tough when you are trying to talk yourself into feeling positive for girth when you are not getting girth and length at the same time.

So as everyone knows,

I water pump (not bathmate)

I can ONLY do that, I get injured by air pumping.

If I've only discovered this after 3 years, you can only imagine this is not spoken about here.

SO...

98% of the time I lube up with coconut oil, water hg is different than air , blah blah.

I always hit the max allowed in water so 13 Hg no problem,

But for some reason, wifey has been in heat the last 3 weeks and wants the D all the time, I'm pumping on off times outside of the routine. So I don't have time to lube up.

I noticed that if I don't lube up, I can only go 8-10HG, water or air. It's only natural!!! no lube more pain, more pulling of skin, harder it is to get to a desired HG etc. I never knew that because I ALWAYS LUBE UP!!!

BUT it seems like many , MANY men here don't know that!

So all these posts about men not hitting their desired HG can just be a dork who has never lubed or doesn't know how to.

I'm saying this because moving forward, we should all ask or call someone out on it. Perhaps some times these men don't need it depending on girth and excitement and cylinder but if you aren't lubed up , you are not lubed up, you are not getting to higher HG. And if you are wondering why some men can go higher and you can't, obviously asking if they are lubed should be first question to ask

Since men can't figure out a lot in the world.

I suggest you take a rolling average to measure gains and starting sizes. I say 4 weeks should be good.

WAIT! What if I am a newbie and hear about this magical thing called newbie gains, then I won't be able to measure my starting size. THAT"S right!

SO before you start your PE journey, measure for a whole month and take the rolling average of your EQ. Wait,,,, What will I do the entire month? RESEARCH everything about PE, every success , injury, goal, drama, routine, everything about PE.