[F4A] What it means to actually be a ‘good girl’
Hi! This is definitely open to both men and women interested in discussing this little idea I had! What I wanted to focus on was the idea behind what it means when a man calls a woman a ‘good girl’. This is almost always used in a sexual situation where the woman has presented herself as sexually submissive, eager to pleasure, or has just finished pleasuring her man, especially after giving a blowjob or something similarly focused on one-sided pleasure.
Now don’t get me wrong this isn’t meant to be a negative discussion! I love when I’m called a good girl after managing to deepthroat a man I met 6 hours ago but I want to discuss deeper about that and why there is no male equivalent for this. Why is being good so closely associated with obedience, submission, and prioritising the man’s pleasure? Why am I slapped when I choke on his cock and expected to thank him when he finishes on my tits? And why does being called a good girl make all of this okay? 😅
For those who get it, please send a message! This is something I’ve been looking to discuss for ages xxx