u/Big_Ad_3851

Hey everyone,

I’ve been into feet since long before it felt "mainstream." I remember specifically looking for porn scenes where feet were involved well before I even knew there was a whole community for things like FJs and worship.

Fast forward to now: I’ve been with my girlfriend for a while. Funnily enough, it was one of the first things I confessed when we started dating—I guess I just wanted to be upfront right away, haha. She’s totally cool with it, though she isn’t really the "foot care" type. She played soccer for years, so she has a bit of a damaged toenail, but honestly, I’m a soles guy so it doesn’t bother me at all. Her soles are great; maybe a little dry, but I still find them really attractive.

I usually like to kiss her feet during missionary, and my absolute peak experience is sucking toes while receiving a BJ. I've only experienced that combo once or twice, but it was incredible.

Here is the thing I’m struggling with:

Lately, I’ve been questioning my fetish. I get insanely hyped up watching videos or reading stories online, but when it comes to real life, I sometimes feel a bit stuck or like I don't know what to do next. It makes me wonder if this is more of a mental/fantasy thing for me, or if I just haven’t explored enough IRL to feel confident.

I’m curious to know if any of you feel like your fetish is more "mental" than physical, or if the "idea" of it ever feels more exciting than the actual practice. I’d also love to hear how you guys transitioned from just "liking" feet to naturally incorporating them into sex without it feeling awkward, especially if you have a partner who is a bit shy or doesn't go out of their way to pamper their feet. How does it usually work for you guys?