u/Bigboibeatgeek

Man I (29M) have missed the chance with my (55F) MIL. I could clearly tell she likes me and probably had the chance early in our relationship, but the window was slowly closing as her and her daughter’s relationship grew tighter and tighter, and now it’s closed. Her father, my wife’s grandfather passed away recently (a couple of months ago now) and since my wife’s father wasn’t around her grandfather was her father figure. His passing definitely trauma bonded them. I’ve always felt she has a slight desire of willing to risk it all, but no window of opportunity as she’s never alone, but since his passing i haven’t seen or felt any inkling of her wanting to do anything with me like I used to. Her and her daughter are so inseparable now they are more like sisters than mother and daughter. I definitely missed my chance. I’ve broken the barriers just enough that I can casually flirt and give slightly longer hugs but that’s how far it’s going to go now. If I push anything further it’s gonna have some repercussions I feel it so my fantasies will just remain fantasies. That’s fine tho, my wife is such an innocent sweetheart I wouldn’t want to do that to her anyway

I posted on here before. Deleted em but I’ll keep this one up. For context i just turned 29 and my MIL is 55. Petite body with a cute lil booty. My girl (her daughter) very short very thick but somehow her mom is much softer to touch idk.

But of context, Even though she’s single and been single since I’ve known her, she’s cool with one of her exes who stop by from time to time. They’re not FWB. I know the ex wants some but she’s not giving him the time of day. So my birthday was the other day and I went to celebrate it with my girl and her family, which includes MIL and her ex. I’m very affectionate towards MIL. I want to fuck soooo bad but she doesn’t seem interested in sex at all, even though my girl recently told me her mom is a freak and there’s a dildo somewhere in her room. I give her long hugs, always compliment her and I kiss her on her face, head, and sometimes on her shoulder as a hint. Sometimes when she wants company she allows me to spoon her, not for long because we are interrupted by my girl and her grandson as they live together. I don’t do it often and I Never put my meat on her. I was going to last time to test the waters but got interrupted before I could

She acts oblivious but I’m sure she gets the hint. I complimented her in front of her ex because she got her hair done recently and after a while I kissed her on the crown of her head, which she really enjoyed. Her ex saw this and accused that me and MiL had a relationship in front of my girl, who I guess ignored it but I didn’t look to get her reaction. Me and mom made eye contact and brushed it off at first, but after a while she did seem to get irritated at the notion.

Her irritation confused me because when I like make passes at her she definitely seems to enjoy the attention or at the very least not get annoyed by it. I assume she was just putting up a front for her daughter. I know she isn’t willing to do anything with me because her and her daughter are like super close, but I know my girl knows I want her mom. Everyone knows but no one is willing to talk about it but shiiii as long as mom still enjoys the attention im giving her I’m not gonna stop.

I posted on here before just to get my obsession with my (M28) MIL (F55) off my chest. I’m posting here again because I noticed something.

Quick disclaimer: I don’t want anything to happen between my MIL and I. If something were to happen it could tear the whole family apart and my wife and MIL are very family oriented I don’t want to be the cause of the destruction of that dynamic. My wife has a kid, MIL’s grandson that she loves more than anything in the world so I can’t risk breaking that up. Crushing on her is fun enough.

A read a post on here a couple weeks ago that the OPs MIL snitched on him after he pulled a move on her. I can’t remember what he did tho.. after reading that I realized that I’ve been a bit too affectionate with my MIL. Never did anything direct because I didn’t believe the feelings are mutual and I didn’t want to make her uncomfortable.. but I have grazed her booty with my arm from time to time. I also used to hug her from behind and even spoon her, but gave her space because putting my meat on her is scary. and one time I grazed her boob while going for a hug. The main thing I do when I see her is caress her thigh and her hip whenever I can. I do it for a split second I never linger but I do it almost every time I see her. She’s never ever told on me and she seems so chill with me doing those things. The touching of her thighs tho I haven’t hugged her from behind in a long time or grazed her butt I’ve been too scared to.

I didn’t think she liked me because I had the opportunity of helping her recover from hip surgery meaning I had the opportunity to help her change, bathe, and get her to the bathroom. Only she didn’t allow me to help with none of that she put all that burden on her daughter who is a very small person. Her reason for doing that is she says she’s shy, but going out of the way of making her fragile daughter do all the hard work while I was just doing chores around the house cemented the idea that the infatuation is one sided. It’s because of this that i had stopped most of the touchy feely things I used to do. The only thing i do now is just touch her thigh and kiss her on her cheek or forehead. The sensitive things she did allow me to do while she was recovering, she always made the effort of not revealing herself to me. She had 2 hip surgeries. One in 2024 and another a few months ago and I’m referring to both of them. The first time was the hardest it literally made my wife sick and this was the surgery that made me stop my touchy feely antics. My wife begged her to allow me to help out more the 2nd time, which we thought MIL understood. She let me help a little bit more but still put all the hard work on her daughter.

Clearly she didn’t want me to SEE her, but realizing that she has never seemed uncomfortable with me TOUCHING her, I decided to try something. I’m a truck driver so I’ve been away for two weeks. Just made it home last night so I decided to see my girl who lives with her mother (MIL). I gave her a hug and I put my hand lower than I should and put my had on her butt. No squeezing just left it there at the top of her butt. This is the first time I touched her butt with my hand, and Not only did she not mind she responded by squeezing my face, which is something she’s never did before.

Maybe just maybe she’s rocking with me after all, not to mention she said something to me while she was recovering “I wish I dated someone like you when I was younger” I thought she was just being sweet, but now idk. So maybe, just maybe, she does like me back. I have to see her again today I might test it again and hug her from behind and see what happens.

I wish tho my MIL is so fine. I’ve (28M) has been crushing on my MIL (55F) ever since I met her back in early 2020. It’s crazy tho because I feel like I had a chance way back when, but over the years the once turbulent relationship with her daughter (my wife 28F) has been remedied so well that they are now inseparable! They never go anywhere without each other and if I were to move my wife (we’re not really married yet that’s why she still lives with her mother) out of her mom’s house she would move in with us. The only time they are separated for the day is when MIL goes to work so I never really have a chance to be alone with her.

I’m just posting this to get this off my chest and it makes me feel better that I’m not the only man that fantasize about their MILs. Her and her daughter have the exact same personality, only MIL has a bigger attitude which I love. Wife is short and very curvy. Ass for days, my favorite body type, but her mother has a sleeper build. Very pretty in the face but you’d think nothing about her body if you see her in public, however I’m always at their house so I see her wearing night gowns all the time. So I know her body is AMAZING, and most of the time under certain lighting you can see right through em. Drives me crazy! I know she thinks I’m attractive, she admitted as such, but she is not interested in sex at all. She has many men try to holler at her but gives none of them any time of day, so there’s no chance I’m getting any.

So all I can do just give her hugs and kisses on the cheek and forehead when I see her. That’s fine with me I’ll just take my fantasy to the grave.