u/BlackBeardBrimstone

I want to ask this to both men and women engaged in non-committal setup (ONS, FUBU, FWB, etc).

In a casual setup, you are the only one with a 100% stake in your own life. These questions ensure that even if the other person is a "disappointment," you aren't a disappointment to yourself.

1. If a biological accident occurs, am I prepared for the reality that my body may change regardless of my relationship status? Can I maintain my sense of self if my physical 'aesthetic' shifts?"

In casual sex, your body is often your primary "asset" in the dating market. You need to know if you can handle a change to that asset without a permanent partner there to validate you.

2. Do I have the financial and emotional infrastructure to handle a crisis alone? If the other person 'ghosts' or panics, do I have a support network that doesn't depend on them?

In non-serious dynamics, "Primary Support" often vanishes when things get "heavy." You must assume a Total Solo Execution plan.

3. At what point does my 'Right to Privacy' outweigh the other person’s 'Right to Know'? Am I prepared for the judgment that comes with a casual 'mess up,' and whose opinion actually has clearance in my life? For the guy, would you prefer to know or you don't want kids entirely?

In serious relationships, transparency is expected. In casual ones, it’s a strategic choice. You need to decide if telling them helps the situation or just invites unnecessary "scolding"

4. Can I treat a contraceptive failure as a statistical risk of the activity rather than a 'shameful' mistake? Am I capable of making a medical decision based on facts rather than guilt?

Casual sex carries an inherent "Gacha" risk. If you see it as a moral failure, you’ll spiral. If you see it as a "Technical Glitch," you can fix it.

5. Am I engaging in this risk because I want a child, or just because I like the sex? If I get pregnant today, am I willing to pay the burden of raising it? If I got someone pregnant, am I man enough to sustain it?

Most casual sex is about the activity. How ready are all consenting parties in the event that the contraceptives fail or that any type of preparedness backfires into unexpected result?

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When have you learned to act cute on me and why is it just now? I glance at you and I simply melt. Is this his effect on you? I wonder. You glow softness, something I long wished before and there you are, looking cute in front of me. You needed kiss. You needed cuddles. I asked for something better.

"Do you want me to eat you instead?" I said in full seriousness.

She blushed. Blushed in a way that is a little too obvious. "I haven't washed properly yet. Are you sure?" She said shyly.

I lifted her shirt and slowly began to suck on her nipples. I saw her moan in the cutest tone. Her face is as soft as ever. "Take off your clothes" she began to dominate. I was leading and she almost killed the vibe. Good thing I was able to pull it back. *I'm not your submissive today.*

I pulled down her trousers and shoved my head towards her privates. I slurped all the juices she had in there. Delectable.

Finally, my tongue missed this taste. My mouth kissed and sucked her clit. That glorious spot underneath her clit? My tongue swiped that left and right. My head swirled round and round. Going back and forth with those three spots.

She's probably too shy for this, I want to left her legs up so my tongue can have proper angle to stick it all in her hole. It's too tasty. I remembered the first time I was lifted in an undignified manner, I hated it. So I propped my arms beneath her back instead. I need to compromise with myself and still be a bit greedy. She'll probably let me do as much. She did.

I wanted to pull her skin wider. Unveil the insides so my mouth can have more access. Fuck! Hypnotized. Her pussy is so beautiful. It looks as smooth as my tongue felt it. I couldn't help but slide my fingers on the outside. "Your nails, it's untrimmed?" She asked in a concerned voice.

"Yes. I didn’t cut my nails" I said truthfully. I stared long enough to her face full of worry. She knows we'd stop if she let her worries get best of her. She had to trust me that I won't hurt her. After an hour of staring at each other and moaning with eyes closed. I love her taste in my mouth. I made sure to slurp everything. I couldn't help it. She's too cute and sweet. I had to touch myself. I reached for it and was shocked by how wet I was. I was just dry humping the air with my butt sticking out.

I stood up and stared down on her. Sticked two fingers in and pulled a wet ones to show. She gasped as if she knew what would I do. I pulled out my juices to stick inside her. "Be careful of your nails". She said.

As if I would use nails. I grunted in my mind.

"Come here, I'll finger you too." She raised her hand signaling me to sit on her arm. So I did. Her insides were hot. I gently stroked my skin to hers, minding not to nick her wity my nails. We wouldn't want a traumatized gf hating how I perform. She shoved it deeper, so I did. I felt her body clench so mindfully. "Baby. With me, don't be shy to squish me". I said reminding her that my pain tolerance is higher than hers.

She clenched and squeezed her thighs. I got even more turned on by the veins inside her throb like crazy. I didn’t have to move it much. She's super sensitive. I closed my eyes, trying to imagine how smooth and beautiful her inside might be. Seeing her pink smooth skin, I envied not having a dick. I would've loved to feel her insides with mine.

I teased her constantly before. She's lucky I'm a woman. My male counterpart would've been ruthless on her. My sex drive would probably sucked her lifeless. I couldn't contain myself. Good thing she had her fingers inside me and is ramming me harder to pull me back to reality.

She pulled my hand out. I didn’t want to wet the bed so I asked to pull hers too. I wanted to eat her but it ended too quickly. I couldn’t help but finger her. I should've contained myself. Well I guess tomorrow's another day 🤤

[She loves dominating me](https://soundgasm.net/u/haidonmindme/Stuff-that-only-my-gf-can-do-Pussy-slapping)

That is a fact. Her face lit up as soon as I said my consent. I want us to intertwine our kinks. She likes BDSM. I like CNC.

The story before the recording was a little too hot. Almost too natural even. She was just bored out and physical pain is something I can endure better than fighting with emotions. I let her slap me even if the slaps are a bit unnerving. I'm saying this not to show great distaste to her kinks but to highlight mine better. What is CNC if I don't tell her it hurts or that she should stop right?

That's how it kinda merged. Crying. We both loved how I sounded. The recording is awful, but that's because we're both aware of the recording. Sobrang conscious namin both. I wanted to post it pa rin kasi in the recording I consented. I said the things I can handle and how she can continue without the worries of needing to stop.

In the recording, there were parts of it where I was praised. Before audio, it was degradation that made me cry. She naturally play both praise kink and degrading kink. I love the mix of both. I want her to fully degrade me and pour all her negative feelings out. I want to absorb all those frustrations she keeps controlled from people and be able to be praised by how much I managed to get through everything.

It could be a bit mumbled but as soon as she was done, she said it verbally. "I'm done na". It was amazing how helpful it was to hear. The play is finished and I'm pulled into reality where she cuddles me softly and continued to show her loving amazed face at me. She praised me and told me stuffs she wants to see me do.

I'm her baby subby with high pain tolerance, I can basically handle all kinds of torture she itches to do to me. We're nothing but amateurs, we're just starting to adapt to it. Doing pain play or any kind of dangerous kinks require intense mind training, especially if a partner has a sexual trauma of some sort.

Consent is power. Getting me comfortable is a huge deal. I was able to confirm and consent kinks I know she wants to do. I lead by submitting. She gave me that much space and love to know that I am truly loved despite the heavy kinks I'm about to endure.

Legit. Akala ko my privates were either bleeding or falling off. I'm not sure if rinig pero I gave my insights rin after. I wanted to get slapped all over para it doesn't hurt one way lang.

The audio is 30 minute long. May part dun sa audio where she fingered me. She rammed her fingers in my throbbing sore pussy and bit my leg. I screamed in both pain and pleasure. One thing I allowed my partners to do: giving me bruises.