I’m 90% sure it’s him I’m planning on texting him next Friday after he’s had time to calm down from me scaring him by finding him
we’ve never really texted o had to get his number from our grandma
his is what I plan to say
“Hey it’s [my name]
I just wanted to say if that’s you I’ve been seeing in [town he lives in] on Grindr and Sniffles you’re secret is safe with me and if you need someone to talk about this stuff I’m here
If it’s not then disregard this text”
I hope he responds well and part of me hopes maybe we can be more than cousins even it just sexual