Im not sure if it was this subreddit, but I saw a post months ago that I still think about. I just wasn’t in NCR at the time so I didn’t take the chance.
There was an older MC looking for a trans man to spoil and that sounds awesome to me. But I’m bisexual so FC also sounds yummy to me.
Why that dynamic? Well, I’ve been single for some time but in my past relationships, I was the more mature one who always had his brain “on”. I’ve always wanted to experience being “babied” even just for a while. Not to say I’m a starfish (not at all!) but I want to be gently dominated. Or roughly… in the future. I haven’t had full-on sex in a few years and low key miss it, but open to cuddles/sides too.
About me:
Chinito, 165 cm, stocky build with squishiness. Athlete of sorts. I’ve been told I’m cute/pogi/poganda. I lean masc with my presentation but have a soft side that isn’t very hidden. I’ve also been told I’m a great conversationalist. Some say I smell good sans cologne. For potential hookups/fwbs, I prefer to vibe check in public because getting right to intimacy is too awkward for me. I like establishing some kind of rapport and warmth before getting dirty. I have a newly bought strap also that I haven’t gotten to try on a partner yet, if that’s your thing. Pre top surgery but on Testosterone.
About you & your partner:
Secure in your relationship is most important. Confidence in yourselves and what you want. Recently tested and clean (including hygiene please). Regards boundaries and consent as non-negotiable, understands after care. Prefer older if possible, with established careers + financially stable. Please be able to host or cover CI. If at least one is bisexual that would help (since my hardware may be unfamiliar) but HRT has changed me enough that it’s different down there hehe so it’s not a must as long as you’re willing to communicate and learn with me. It would be preferable if one or both are physically fit/active. I don’t need gym buff status at all but I do find fitness attractive. Height isn’t super important to me.
Anyway, if you read this far and this sounds like fun please message me and include your favorite treat to enjoy as a couple. Please introduce yourselves as well (both physical and non physical things).