u/Bright-Lab-4250

So here is the thing, ive been an active dom for the past 10 years, and let me tell you, it sucks, because handling a woman with strong personality and real power isnt easy.

Ive been through it all, fe*life, instagram, dating apps, facebook groups twitter reddit (also real life ofc).
Our lovely male human species only care about their dick, and mostly its a small dick but still annoys me as much as i admit.

Being in a dom/sub relationship (and im here talking about my personal point of view) should be first be about connection, its when u care about the other person but a bit more than the usual: paying attention to details, a dynamic built in trust and understanding.
The relationship should incorporate the BDSM into the daily, non-sexual routine, with habits and boundaries first, then everything else comes with time.

With all that being said, the subs in Morocco are taking everything sexual, sending at the first message their d or hole pics, gooning and making the conversation all about how should i fist my hand into their ass or spit on them just little w9 bitches chasing the fake dopamine rushs and acting like dogs in dms.

THATS WHAT I HATE THE MOST!

The cheap fantasies that u see in porn exists, doms are charging from 1,000 to 4,000 DHS per session for the yelling, spanking, and pegging and every disgusting thing u might desire but you will never get genuine emotional fulfillment or real aftercare from a purely transactional encounter. I know this firsthand.. it lacks substance.

I am an attractive, educated, and intelligent woman who leads in the workplace and thrives as a creative artist. I know my worth, and I expect anyone in my life to match my standards, the subs i want should respect my boundaries, and treat me like the queen I am, the findom aspect is also important as an act of tribute for my time and energy, and a way to prove the sincerity of the submission, and the only submissives that matches my conditions were non moroccans or live aboard.

So when i say it sucks here, it really does.

Maybe i will do a 2nd part later.

Im looking for some pets