Found a girl on reddit

A few weeks ago I made a post asking about an intimacy issue my ex was dealing with. A girl randomly DM'd me we started chatting and somehow the conversation just kept going. After a while, we decided to meet at a cafe in Johar Karachi.
At first we were both a little nervous since it was our first time meeting a complete stranger from Reddit.
But after 15-20 minutes everything felt surprisingly natural. She was really pretty, easy to talk to, and the conversation just flowed.
Later we decided to hang out somewhere more private so I booked a decent hotel room near Gulshan (not one of those sketchy couple guesthouses). We dimmed the lights, put on a movie, and just chilled. One thing led to another we spent hours together cuddling, talking, laughing, and getting closer. We ended up with 3 rounds and spending around five hours together and it turned into one of the most unexpected and memorable experiences I've had.
Never thought a random Reddit DM would actually turn into something like this.

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u/Bulky-Speaker4113 — 3 days ago
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Found a girl on Reddit.

A few weeks ago I made a post asking about an intimacy issue my ex was dealing with. A girl randomly DM’d me we started chatting and somehow the conversation just kept going. After a while, we decided to meet at a cafe in Johar Karachi.

At first we were both a little nervous since it was our first time meeting a complete stranger from Reddit. But after 15–20 minutes everything felt surprisingly natural. She was really pretty, easy to talk to, and the conversation just flowed.
Later we decided to hang out somewhere more private so I booked a decent hotel room near Gulshan (not one of those sketchy couple guesthouses). We dimmed the lights, put on a movie, and just chilled. One thing led to another we spent hours together cuddling, talking, laughing, and getting closer. We ended up with 3 rounds and spending around five hours together and it turned into one of the most unexpected and memorable experiences I’ve had.
Never thought a random Reddit DM would actually turn into something like this.

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u/Bulky-Speaker4113 — 3 days ago
▲ 1 r/karachi_couples+1 crossposts

Need serious advice Penetration not possible with my married girlfriend despite 3 years relationship

I (26M) am in a relationship with a married girl she is (26) for more than 3 years. It’s a very good respectful and loving relationship. She is not interested in her husband at all. She says he is not attractive to her and the marriage only happened due to family pressure. She told me that with her husband she only does penetration no kissing, no touching, no foreplay. He just does his thing for 2,3 minutes and leaves.
With me things are completely different. She becomes very wild and passionate. We can do foreplay for hours and both enjoy it a lot. But the problem is penetration is not happening at all.
I have tried everything:
• Many different positions (including cowgirl where she has full control)
• Very long foreplay
• Massage to relax her
• Good quality lubricants
• Going extremely slow
She gets properly wet and says she wants it badly. But the moment I try to insert she suddenly gets scared lifts her hips or back and it comes out. After trying many times she starts feeling pain. She is also scared of me touching or fingering her down there and she doesn’t allow licking either. So in the end we only do outer rubbing.
In the beginning I thought she needs time so I was patient. But now even she gets frustrated and insists to try. I always try to make her feel relaxed and safe but it’s still not working.
Can any experts or people who faced similar issues tell me what could be the problem and what we should do?
Is this vaginismus? Anxiety? Or something else?
Any practical suggestions will help. Thank you.

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u/Bulky-Speaker4113 — 1 month ago

Need serious advice Penetration not possible with my married girlfriend despite 3 years relationship

I (26M) am in a relationship with a married girl she is (26) for more than 3 years. It’s a very good respectful and loving relationship. She is not interested in her husband at all. She says he is not attractive to her and the marriage only happened due to family pressure. She told me that with her husband she only does penetration no kissing, no touching, no foreplay. He just does his thing for 2,3 minutes and leaves.
With me things are completely different. She becomes very wild and passionate. We can do foreplay for hours and both enjoy it a lot. But the problem is penetration is not happening at all.
I have tried everything:
• Many different positions (including cowgirl where she has full control)
• Very long foreplay
• Massage to relax her
• Good quality lubricants
• Going extremely slow
She gets properly wet and says she wants it badly. But the moment I try to insert she suddenly gets scared lifts her hips or back and it comes out. After trying many times she starts feeling pain. She is also scared of me touching or fingering her down there and she doesn’t allow licking either. So in the end we only do outer rubbing.
In the beginning I thought she needs time so I was patient. But now even she gets frustrated and insists to try. I always try to make her feel relaxed and safe but it’s still not working.
Can any experts or people who faced similar issues tell me what could be the problem and what we should do?
Is this vaginismus? Anxiety? Or something else?
Any practical suggestions will help. Thank you.

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u/Bulky-Speaker4113 — 1 month ago