u/BusyBrown

Why can't my indian bf give me an attitude adjustment like white men can?

I always wanted to mix sex with powerplay and despite so many times trying to communicate it, my bf just seems to turn off if i act like a brat or ask for CNC or something. I mean sure I don't like super rough sex and for me domination and humiliation are both sensual, but he just lets me get away with everything. Meanwhile at work I feel like white men are always giving me an attitude check even though they shower me with praises and clearly lust after me. It's just the way they act, brag, talk openly about their sexual and nonsexual exploits. I wish my bf had this confidence. #Rant.

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u/BusyBrown — 5 days ago

23f indian. Ughh is it common for racial resentment to manifest itself in sensual attraction to white men?

Not sure how to say this but my bf and i are both indian and in Europe. Its not easy being an immigrant and while we both have skilled jobs, theres always white men standing between us and success. i developed this kink after coming here and to be honest I am into passionate/sensual fantasies even with white men and even i am fantasizinb about more... ahem.. Non consensual stuff. So i didnt think that it was related to the whole minortiy complex. But now i see that every time I feel some kind of iiritation at a white man, i feel more aroused by the idea of this kink. is this a common story or am I just crazy?

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u/BusyBrown — 9 days ago

I feel like I am losing grip a bit. In a relationship with indian bf but wmif is really getting to me

it feels like a weird magnetism or gravity. Not like some weird bdsm thing, just two pieces in a puzzle that fit.

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u/BusyBrown — 16 days ago

Been in europe for some years now and my bf (indian) and i always bitch about the local people. Yet over time my attraction to white men has never stopped growing. Yes they are always having it easy and in a position of power, but what i feel wjth them is mpre passionate and intimate than some 50 shades of grey shit, eventhough it is noncon a lot.

Just started thinking that maybe its the naturally competitive attitude of us asian girls which makes us prone to this pick me girl type of horniness.

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u/BusyBrown — 23 days ago

indian girl here in Europe. Bit scared at how easy it is to end up in the arms of a white man. Im kind of hot in a petite way and there have been so many isntances lately both at work and outside when i have felt that the white man was lusting after me. I am sure others do too but its weirdly magnetizing when white men do for some reason.

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u/BusyBrown — 27 days ago