u/Ca-obs

I don’t know if this is the right place to post this, so sorry if it isn’t. I’m a gay guy who’s bttm but also a Dom. I think some guys assume that just because I’m a Dom, I only want to use them like a sex toy and that’s it.

It’s actually really hard to find a sub top who truly understands how Dom/sub works. Even when I make it clear how it works for me, it still ends up being frustrating, like dealing with a human sex doll instead of a real dynamic.