Hello dommes,
I’m writing this from a place of real frustration and, honestly, exhaustion.
For months now I’ve been trying to walk away from findom. I’ve deleted accounts, blocked platforms, removed every obvious trigger I could think of—but somehow I keep falling back into the same cycle. The longest I’ve managed to stay away is two days. After that, it’s like something takes over and I relapse again.
It’s not even about enjoyment anymore. It feels compulsive, like I’m stuck in a loop I can’t break, no matter how aware I am of it. And that’s the part that scares me the most—the lack of control.
Recently, I’ve come across mentions of “findom therapy” offered by some goddesses—arrangements that are supposedly structured to help people detach from the lifestyle rather than go deeper into it. I don’t fully understand how that works, and part of me is skeptical, but another part of me is just desperate enough to consider anything that might actually help.
So I guess I’m here to ask, openly and honestly:
Is that something real? Has anyone here experienced it from either side?