u/CardProfessional8461

After 14 years in a really good marriage i found out that my husband has been cheating on me for nearly a year now. I found out through the other betrayed partner ... the husband of my husbands affair. He contacted me and asked if i was his (he named my husbands name) wife. I told him yes and then he said that his wife and my husband are having an affair for quite some time now. I obviously didnt believe him and thought he was making random stuff up. And as i told him i was about to block him he said he had evidence. That delayed my intention of blocking him because i wanted to see the evidence. At that point i still didnt believe him but when he sent a few screenshots basically my whole life collapsed. It were only a few screenshots but he said he had it all and he wanted me to see and have it all. He also added he was sorry but that he had to let me know. Which I'm glad he did. We remained in contact and eventually met for a caffee where he unleashed it all to me. The stuff i had to read was disgusting and an extremely tough one to swallow but I'm glad it came out. My husband and his wife were were hooking up while acting all normal and hiding it from us. In their chats they arranged dates,hookups,were dirty talking,sending nudes etc you get the idea. I even found out they fucked in the same bed i was sleeping in every single night. And then there were the two of us betrayed partners left. We stayed in contact and after a while he asked me out. Nothing specific, just a drink or a dinner or whatever. I assumed he had some sort of sexual intention behind that but i agreed anyways. He was very handsome,very kind and a real gentlemen. And very attractive as well ... I went out with him and it was only that and nothing more for that evening. But the tone and the chemistry were definitely changing. We were getting along very well and had a good time. We would meet a few more times without any romantic or sexual imvolvement but our connection was getting deeper. Now that we were somewhat involved with each other and been in contact for some time and had seen each other a few times before he asked if i would be open to getting some revenge and sleep with him. I agreed. He is hot, his personality is right and overall he is a nice man. And with our story and this whole situation i didnt decline. That evening we went to dinner and had a few drinks afterwards. Another very pleasant meeting. And then the evening continued. He had booked a really good hotel room. And the moment we arrived and closed the door we went at it like horny,desperate teens. The sex was really good. He was good. I was good. Our chemistry was good. And the overall experience phenomenal and very fulfilling. As if we were both kind of fucking our frustrations out in a good way though. We also spend the night there and i slept in his arms. We have remained in contact and we have been seeing each other and yes we are also regularly sleeping together. I honestly dont know why you would cheat on a man like him but i will take him haha. He is a nice consolidation prize for losing my marriage.