27 [F4M] Akron - I need something SPECIFIC
I’m looking for a male friend. Someone who likes to talk on the phone or video chat, preferably. I don’t think I’m ready to have sex again yet, but I want to be attracted enough and vibe well enough with said male friend that if/when sex happens, it would be a great time. Someone who doesn’t get disappointed or let down easily and is patient. I have seven different mental health diagnoses and am a trauma survivor. I’m not emotionally available at the moment or wanting any type of romantic relationship, but am open to the idea of it in the future.
I prefer a single, monogamous male. I have no desire for poly or partnered men, I don’t want to be someone’s mistress or sneaky link.
I need something casual but with but able to have mature and challenging conversations. The option to be vulnerable and open like friends are but with certain limits - I am a great listener and advice giver (I’ve been told), but I can’t take on your issues as my own nor would I want you to do the same for me. A mutual understanding of the real life human experience without becoming codependent. Putting some distance and time in between us sometimes so as to not grow obsessed with each other. Two human beings who have their own independent lives that don’t need someone to complete them, who already feel completed enough on their own. So if things don’t work out, a clean break can be made without too many hard feelings.
I’m in Akron, OH in the USA. I’m a 27F, 5’2”, very curvy female with great assets. Green eyes, red hair, red glasses, with a sense of adventure.
Let’s see where this post leads me.