Tips to be a great Key Holder
Hey guys !
So I (24M) have been dating this guy (25M) for a few weeks now and things are going really well and it might become really serious. We always have a good time together and the sex has been perfect. We met at a techno kinky event so discussing what we enjoy sexually was pretty easy and early in our relationship.
For the record, I’m a top and enjoy to have sexual experiences on the harder side from time to time like fisting, and I’m generally more dom. But I’ve never really been into or discovered chastity play so it doesn’t really come natural to me. He, on the other hand, is a bottom and is really into being caged, he’s been doing it for a while even by himself, so of course he wants me to become his key holder, which is super great. I really love that he’s confortable sharing this with me and I really want to please him as much as I can.
We’ve been experimenting with that together for a couple of weeks and I’m starting to like it. But I also don’t really know how to do things correctly. Like I don’t really know for how long I can ask him to keep the cage, if it’s safe, if he asks me if he can cum should I say yes, should I take off the cage when we’re done having sex, it feels like there’s never a right time to take it off tbh…
So I would love for you caged guys to tell me what you enjoy and want from a key holder, what’s super sexy to you and what can kill the mood for you ? Also feel free to tell me what you enjoy about being caged in general.
And for the other key holders tops, what do you guys enjoy about being the key holder ? Any tips from experience.
Thanks in advance guys, i really wanna make things work between us and want him to feel safe but submitted to me like I know he would love !