Why is it so difficult to get to know new people.
A note if my wording ain't the best English is not my native language.
I kinda think I keep it brief. I sometimes wonder why it is so hard to get to know people. I'm kinda a bit of a shy and anxious person, so it ain't easy to get in touch with people. I have been on my own for like years now and I thought that it is fine that way.
Since bout two years I had multiple occasions where I had fallen for people, sadly it wasn't mutual. So far I thought bout trying to get to know new people, but it is kinda hard to talk to strangers. Even though I see people who spark my curiosity, I don't dare to talk to them out of anxiety. Also dating apps I kinda don't trust. So idk it looks like it is a bit screwed.
I kinda wonder what would be helpful for someone, who is too shy and anxious to interact with strangers, cuz he had bad experience with alot of people in his past. It also took alot of courage to write this, cuz well the idea of it scared me alot. Idk feel free to write some advices down here. I kinda already can tell anyone, that I probably won't respond to dm's out of well trust issues.