u/Choice_Feeling653

Genuine question from personal experience. [It's a vent, actually.]

A guy who chased me for 6 months straight. Yeah, constant attention, compliments, messages, like he sold his self-respect, but I kept ignoring him for a long time, then finally gave him a chance. We spent some amazing night together. He spent 1 hour on a journey just for this, ] ... then a few more sessions.

And somewhere in those moments… I got attached. Not just physically. Emotionally too. [We bottoms are more emotional, unfortunately.]

so i started thinking maybe I finally found my man. but nahh,,,,
The moment I became obsessed with him, and told him, how i love to ride, etc., etc.
He changed completely. Replies slowed down, excuses started, and when I confronted him, eventually he ghosted me, complete silence.

but i'm not alone, honestly. I keep hearing the same story from other girlies

my question to TOP, or so-called sigma bulls, ... Why does this happen so often with you guys? I know in india tops are very rare...they have huge pool of bottom , but

Why do you come in intensely with so much attention and effort but disappear once there’s emotional consistency needed..

We ladies are just more emotionally vulnerable after intimacy. Why don't you feel the same? why lose interest?

Curious to hear honest answers from tops and stories from my fellow bottoms

thanks for time.

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,..

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spend whole day as a housewife; older ladies used to work in the kitchen...and we modern bhabhis work in companies...but after getting redy in a saree, the vibes are the same.