u/ConfidenceStill5760

Story time of how I think I broke my girlfriend.

My girlfriend (26M) and I (28M) have been in a relationship for almost 5 years now. But around October last year, I opened up about my kink of seeing her being really satisfied and turned on, even if it’s not with me. I think the root of this kink is I am being turned on when she’s being honest with me when it comes to those kind of things. She wasn’t on board with that. She told me she doesn’t want complicated things. I respected it, of course.

Our relationship is good, but recently we were having problems, but not about the sex. It was more on about how we deal with each other.

Because of those issues, a month ago, she broke up with me just so I can chase her (she does this sometimes). But I tried to not chase her this time just to see what she will do. Because of that, she tried using a dating app because I wasn’t talking to her. She didn’t swipe anyone tho. She just showed it to me just so I would chase her. I got so turned on about the fact that she’s doing that given that I have a kink somewhat related to that.

My condition before we decided to be with each other again was to delete the dating app. And she did. Then I lowkey made a joke that she can download it again if she wants to. And she did again. She said she will do it just to turn me on again like what I felt when she used it the first time. But this time, I will let her talk to some guys from the app.

When we saw each other the day after she started using the app again, she was so horny. And she was horny the whole time she has that dating app.

Until one night, she said she wanted to try threesome, or do solo session with some guys she was talking to. I asked her if she’s open to seeing guys, and her answer was no, because she’s not confident with her look and she’s busy. She didn’t say no because she doesn’t want to. She said that if the circumstances were different, she is open to meeting some guys. She told me that if she sees someone, she might be open with making out with the guy, or even doing it with him if the conversation was good.

I got so turned on by it! And we had sex many times because we’re both so turned on about the thought of her doing it with someone else. She gave me a very sloppy blowjob and rode me like it's her last sex ever.

However, she said she might be getting attached to that one guy she was talking to. She didn’t see the guy yet but the guy is really smooth when it comes to talking to her. He even bought her favorite snack for her.

For me, it was okay. But we felt like she needs to gain control over her actions when comes to it. That’s why we decided to put an end to it, or at least for a while. Because she couldn’t stop talking to him even if it’s our “baby time”. And she told me that she’s becoming clingy to the guy (or guyS she was talking to that time).

When we talked about it, she opened up that she got sad that we had to stop. She told me that she really enjoyed the attention, and the ego boost she was receiving. But she also said that I was not lacking when it comes to giving her those things, but she wants to have two (or more) daddies for a sweet girl like her. She wants want I’m giving, but she’s also open to receive what the other guys could offer. She said that initially, she was doing it for me, but later on finds herself enjoying every minute of it.

Right now, she’s not using the app anymore. Our sex is still good. We’re still figuring out how to keep her in control of what she might do with other guys.

Anyways, I’m still turned on by it! I feel like I unleashed something truly wild in her. She was innocent, sweet, and faithful to me. But now, she's open to exploring things, and spicing things up to make life more thrilling.

25 (F4M) Help a stressed girlie out

lf: good looking guy for my good looking girl