u/Connect-Body4734

Seller/buyer forum and support

It’s no secret that the economy is shit so buyers and sellers are struggling. Lately it seems like there’s been a huge influx of scamming and time wasting on both sides. I’ve wanted to create my own sub on here OR a discord server where we can gather.

It would basically be like a private club… invite/referral only… opposed to just anyone being able to join. Sellers could talk about sales and share either how much they made that day orrr just how many sales in general they had since everyone has different prices.

But, the main thing would be that we could share buyers. For example, if you have any regulars or just buyers in general that you’ve worked with..let’s say… a minimum of three times before… you could then ask that buyer if they would like to be added to the group/sub.

Doing it that way would mean that not only do we know that buyer is trusted and not a time waster… but HE would then be able to work with other sellers and not have to worry about being burned. If it was on discord…we could have a channel where it’s literally just a list of categorized sellers that buyers can browse based on what that seller specializes in. For example,

Seller username 1- GFE
Seller username 2- video calls/customs
Seller username 3- everything
Seller username 4- Femdom

But you get the idea hopefully. It doesn’t have to be set up that way strictly. It could also be channels based on type of service/content and within that channel a list of sellers that offer that service.

A channel where sellers post their ads so it’s easy for buyers to browse and find what they’re looking for…and so that sellers aren’t having to view posts from other sellers.

A channel where buyers post requests using a template that shows their budget and payment methods. That way a seller can look at a post and see if it would be something they can do… instead of having to message the buyer to ask them what their payment methods are or what they’re looking for specifically because I have seen so many buyer posts that are incredibly vague.

Within this group, sellers would be united. Sellers would still be setting their own prices…. However, ridiculously low prices would not be allowed to be publicly advertised. I’ve seen so many sellers offering a MONTH long GFE for $50 and it causes buyers to think that it’s a normal price range which screws over other sellers that offer the same service. So, if you do want to offer your services at an extremely low rate… you can. It just wouldn’t be allowed in the post/ad.

This is just a rough idea and I have no idea if I would even be able to make it happen or if it would work. But, sellers could add their trusted buyers… buyers could add trusted sellers…

Verification would be required to join. So, because of that it would cut down on sellers having to make every single buyer they work with a custom verification video… because if the seller is in the server…. It means they have already been verified/vetted and if a buyer requests an additional verification video…it’ll be seen as time wasting. The same goes for buyers. In order for the buyer to be in the group, not only would they need to be referred by a seller they have successfully worked with at least three times… but the only other way for them to join without a referral, would be by providing a minimum of 3 recent proof of purchases or something.

Anyway, I probably overexplained and made this post a lot longer than it needed to be. But, ideas are welcome. I’m just tired of joining a sub that has 2k members but it’s all time wasters/scams…along with being tired of vague/low effort buyer posts, getting verified in a sub and still having to make a custom VV for every buyer I speak to whether or not they actually buy.

Since this would be for everyone… the group would have multiple moderators consisting of buyers and sellers that way it’s non-biased when it comes to reporting/support. You won’t have to worry about not having your side of the story heard. BOTH people involved in a report would be spoken to.

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u/Connect-Body4734 — 11 hours ago

SCAMMER-TIMEWASTER u/DiamondHands360

u/DiamondHands360

Link to the conversation included. He was VERY entitled/rude with the way he spoke to me.

He made a post looking for gfe/sb/connection that I responded to. He gave me his Telegram immediately after accepting my chat request so we moved there around 1 PM est. He immediately wanted a verification video or video chat to verify… that was red flag number one because there’s no reason to do a video chat just for verification purposes.

Anyway, I don’t want to be pushy when it comes to payment so I spoke to him pretty much all day. Not once did he actually bring up the business aspect… but he did ask for pictures… I told him politely that I had a bunch on my profile, but he couldn’t be bothered to go look.

Anyway, I had a weird feeling about him, so I told him that we needed to go over details and I sent a few long messages explaining my POV on why I had a weird feeling… suddenly he was calling me ugly and said “ did you think I was just going to send you $500 after 10 minutes of talking” ….. mind you we had been speaking for nine hours and not once. Did he bring up payment or anything relating to an arrangement😂 I guess he felt targeted when I brought up time wasters and scammers.

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u/Connect-Body4734 — 2 days ago

No fading out, no bullshit, just gfe💚

I enjoy doing arrangements like this because I enjoy actually getting to know the person I’m with. So whether it’s casual conversation and sending funny videos, we find online to one another…or it’s based around role-play… let me help. Need to vent about work or home life? I’m here. Want to explore something you’ve been interested in but you just haven’t taken the first step yet? I’m here. Tell me your expectations and I’ll work it out. 😊 I have my little menu along with a verification video on my page but I don’t mind making another verification vid specifically for you.

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u/Connect-Body4734 — 3 days ago

GFE only💚

* I AM A SELLER NOT A BUYER PLEASE CHECK THE FLAIR**

I would like to have someone to be with that can hold a conversation and it’s more than just something that feels transactional. But I’m a pretty straightforward person and I always try to be transparent. With that being said, I’m just tired about worrying about bills. I don’t mind negotiating prices whether it’s for gfe, premades, sessions… I’m just tired of getting my hopes up and my time wasted. So, PLEASE… if you message me just be straight to the point and honest. I genuinely do not know how much more I can take mentally when it comes to being let down from Reddit. Logically, I know not everyone is bad. But, recently it’s getting harder and harder to look out the bright side and hold out hope for someone decent and real.

u/Connect-Body4734 — 3 days ago

Long or short term, Gfe arrangement based on your preferences :)

* I AM A SELLER NOT A BUYER PLEASE CHECK THE FLAIR**

I would like to have someone to be with that can hold a conversation and it’s more than just something that feels transactional. But I’m a pretty straightforward person and I always try to be transparent. With that being said, I’m just tired about worrying about bills. I don’t mind negotiating prices whether it’s for gfe, premades, sessions… I’m just tired of getting my hopes up and my time wasted. So, PLEASE… if you message me just be straight to the point and honest. I genuinely do not know how much more I can take mentally when it comes to being let down from Reddit. Logically, I know not everyone is bad. But, recently it’s getting harder and harder to look out the bright side and hold out hope for someone decent and real.

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u/Connect-Body4734 — 5 days ago

Gfe but with a real person…and I’m kinda funny…sometimes..

I would like to have someone to be with that can hold a conversation and it’s more than just something that feels transactional. But I’m a pretty straightforward person and I always try to be transparent. With that being said, I’m just tired about worrying about bills. I don’t mind negotiating prices whether it’s for gfe, premades, sessions… I’m just tired of getting my hopes up and my time wasted. So, PLEASE… if you message me just be straight to the point and honest. I genuinely do not know how much more I can take mentally when it comes to being let down from Reddit. Logically, I know not everyone is bad. But, recently it’s getting harder and harder to look out the bright side and hold out hope for someone decent and real.

u/Connect-Body4734 — 7 days ago

Something real and genuine hopefully🥹

I would like to have someone to be with that can hold a conversation and it’s more than just something that feels transactional. But I’m a pretty straightforward person and I always try to be transparent. With that being said, I’m just tired about worrying about bills. I don’t mind negotiating prices whether it’s for gfe, premades, sessions… I’m just tired of getting my hopes up and my time wasted. So, PLEASE… if you message me just be straight to the point and honest. I genuinely do not know how much more I can take mentally when it comes to being let down from Reddit. Logically, I know not everyone is bad. But, recently it’s getting harder and harder to look out the bright side and hold out hope for someone decent and real.

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u/Connect-Body4734 — 9 days ago

GFE-🥹

I would like to have someone to be with that can hold a conversation and it’s more than just something that feels transactional. But I’m a pretty straightforward person and I always try to be transparent. With that being said, I’m just tired about worrying about bills. I don’t mind negotiating prices whether it’s for gfe, premades, sessions… I’m just tired of getting my hopes up and my time wasted. So, PLEASE… if you message me just be straight to the point and honest. I genuinely do not know how much more I can take mentally when it comes to being let down from Reddit. Logically, I know not everyone is bad. But, recently it’s getting harder and harder to look out the bright side and hold out hope for someone decent and real.

u/Connect-Body4734 — 9 days ago

Time wasters-

I’m growing more and more tired of it. So, feel free to tag the tag wasters you’ve encountered so we can all go through and block them. The moderators are in high demand so I know they realistically can’t respond to all reports. So, to give them a bit of relief… I’m just gonna start posting the time wasters because if we don’t, they’re just going to keep doing it to someone else.

u/Lkn4aDoll is not only a time waster, but he wants to video call for verification for absolutely no reason and basically just wants to chat for free. As I encounter more, I’ll be updating this post💚

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u/Connect-Body4734 — 9 days ago

I enjoy doing arrangements like this because I enjoy actually getting to know the person I’m with. So whether it’s casual conversation and sending funny videos, we find online to one another…or it’s based around role-play… let me help. Need to vent about work or home life? I’m here. Want to explore something you’ve been interested in but you just haven’t taken the first step yet? I’m here. Tell me your expectations and I’ll work it out. 😊 I have my little menu along with a verification video on my page but I don’t mind making another verification vid specifically for you.

u/Connect-Body4734 — 23 days ago

I do pretty much just GFE because that’s what I actually enjoy. I like doing it that way because it gives me the chance to actually get to know the person :) I am in the eastern time zone but I’m very good about making things work when it comes to schedules and time differences. Also I do have a verification video on my page, but I don’t mind making one specifically for you. I do have pricing on my page, but if you have any other questions, feel free to reach out!

u/Connect-Body4734 — 24 days ago