This may not be the place but to all the non scammers and regular ppl in here…
If I wanna get into the kink community up here, how do I go about that. Are there kink clubs or dungeons around Bing? Fetlife in the Bing area is depressingly dead so…
I’m 20M switch bi but definitely more sub leaning and straight leaning. I’m unsure how to introduce the fact that I’m both a brat and a brat tamer (I’d settle for one or the other tbh) with people I meet, especially in a college setting like mine.
Like I don’t really use dating apps but if I did is that something I should note? For ppl I meet irl should I mention it or bring it up after a specific number of dates? Should I maybe just put that whole kinky side of my life aside until I’ve graduated and am no longer in college?
I guess I’m just wondering whether ppl have any advice or experiences to share regarding how they went abt this. I myself was not very social in high school and have been coming out of my shell now and I feel that has prolly impacted me somewhat.
For context I’m from NYC and go tos school upstate if that’s relevant.