u/CraftyChick22

My husband and I have been happily married for 20 years. Over time, we’ve grown and matured together both emotionally and in our intimacy.

A few years ago, he opened up to me about a fantasy he had and introduced a male companion doll from Tantaly for me to explore the idea in a more private, low-pressure way. Over time, that experience naturally led into conversations about potentially involving a third person.

I’m not opposed to the idea, but what I initially imagined as a one-on-one dynamic has now shifted into something involving two men, and I honestly don’t know where to start with that mentally or practically.
He’s suggested people within our circle, but I feel more comfortable keeping things separate from our personal lives for privacy reasons.

I didn’t realize how common or uncommon this actually is in real life, and I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed. I would really appreciate any genuine first-hand advice or experiences from people who’ve been through something similar.

Sorry for the long post—this is a lot to navigate.