u/Cute-Cry-8378

I am recently out of a very long-term relationship, where my partner never wanted to explore kink with me.

Now that I’m single, I feel more desire to explore within the community however, I am a nervous/shy person to go explore. I have made a fetlife acc and I’m aware of events near me. Most of munches for 25+ which I cannot go to, and or more extreme kinks which I don’t believe I’m ready for just yet.

I am interested in trying a lot and doing a lot, I have done lots of research. I simply have no idea how to get my feet wet or overcome the initial nervousness of putting myself out there.

If anyone has any recommendations or tips or anything really I would appreciate it very much.