u/DJBJ3Kat

Thoughts on venue issues

So there have been a number of negative reviews that have come out over night with some of the single guys at Sydney sauna, which seem to be similar issues all SOP venues experience. Single straight guys that just don’t know how to behave. So I have been thinking on it and have come up with a possible solution.

I know this is not really a manageable solutions but most, if not all the issues seems to be single straight guys who just don’t know how to behave….

Perhaps they need to change the pay structure
All woman Free
Man with a female partner $20
Single bi or gay man $35
Single straight man $100

Hard to police I know but the higher price for the single straight guys would keep the troublemakers away.

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u/DJBJ3Kat — 1 day ago

Flamingos review

Well I know I said I would not post another review, but how can I not.
I know it was only Opening night but WOW.
THIS PLACE IS HOT.

It has lived up to all of the hype it has created over the past few months. The venues layout has been well thought of and well executed. The feel is amazing. The art work just beautiful.

I think the best thing about this place is that the owners and management have clearly set out to create a truly open to all space and feel.
Coupes will find this venue works for them if it is their first tentative trip or their 1000 they will feel right at home.

It was great to catch up with some people on here and put a face to the names. Was also great to see a view who truly will not allow bad behaviour and will deal with it appropriately straight away. Not that there was much at all of that bad behaviour because this place has totally been set up to attract the good eggs in this community.

We are looking forward to their theme nights including their BDSM night, Euphoria. As well as visiting sometimes on the weekdays during the day.

So happy to find another venue who truely listens to its intended patrons and truely cares.
Long live Flamingos.

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u/DJBJ3Kat — 14 days ago

So often you hear guys on here complaining that there are no couples or woman when they go to a SOP/adult cinema, or that the won’t play with them. Well guys here are 10 quick tips to help you get the best results at a venue.

  1. DON’T pounce on a couple or woman the second they walk in or follow them around like rats. Most woman and couples who go are looking to play, they just need time to adjust and get comfortable. If they don’t get comfortable they will probably turn around and leave. Don’t even talk to them or offer them a seat. Just give them a nod if you are wanting to play, they will come and find you if they want you.
  2. DON’T have a dirty Dick - Smelly dicks and dicks with cheese are not what others want to play with. You will just stuff up everyone’s chances of having fun.
  3. NO MEANS NO… I don’t know why we need to write this one, but as a couple who have visited many venues this still does not seem to be something that men understand.
  4. HAVE A SHOWER - be clean, smell clean no one will play with you if you fill the room up with your BO
  5. DON’T Keep asking - once the couple/woman has said no leave them alone. Don’t keep coming back and “checking”
  6. The couple/woman controls everything. They will let you know if they want to play with you and what they want.
  7. be honest with what you are willing to do - These places are mainly

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  1. venues which are traditionally a safe space for gay and bi men. So often the couples who play there are also bi as such if you are not willing to play with the guy as well then you will probably not be what they want.

  2. DON’T block the doorway - if a couple has chosen to leave the door open to a private room it does not give you permission to enter or to block the door for others. You might not be what the couple is looking for, but the guy who you are blocking might be…

  3. have no expectations - just because a woman or couple go to a SOP does not mean they actually want to play. Often when guys expect that a woman will put out because she is there it’s a massive turnoff. Also don’t assume that the guy in the coupe is a cucked..

If more guys followed these simple rules then perhaps more couples would have more fun when they go and come more often.

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u/DJBJ3Kat — 24 days ago