Why don’t people do their own research?

There are often questions on here “it’s my first time where should I go”.
Why do people not read the reviews in this group? Or check the internet first?

If you cannot take the initiative to find the information you need first then perhaps you will not do well at any SOP…..

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u/DJBJ3Kat — 23 hours ago

Wishing I was somewhere else

Gee I can think of so many more fun places to be than in the office working right now.

Where would you be if you could?

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u/DJBJ3Kat — 7 days ago

When your golf buddy does not wake up

So I have taken today off to play golf with a friend but he appears to have not woken up…
So what do I do with my day now?

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u/DJBJ3Kat — 12 days ago

Good visit at Flamingos today

We had a good visit at Flamingo’s today. Took this baby out for a kebab lunch today… but I did take it back…

u/DJBJ3Kat — 16 days ago
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Couple heading to Flamingo’s Monday lunch

This coming Monday late 40’s bi couple are planing a trip to Flamingo’s. We are looking for the following;
Other couples prefer both to be bi
Trans into both male and female
Single bi guys. That will play with both male and female.

All must be polite, take direction well and not just assume that they will be played with. We choose who we want to play with and when

No need for people to send us messages just turn up if you fit this criteria. ### if you can not understand this rule you will be blocked###

Timing is a bit fluid but hopefully from around 11:30 till 3:30

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u/DJBJ3Kat — 18 days ago

Olive - Venue Furniture

When they say Olive is venue furniture out at flamingo’s they really mean it..
we sat on the couch in the main video room and sat right on his face…

Ps permission was sort by olive and the wife before posting

u/DJBJ3Kat — 25 days ago
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Another great night at Flamingos

Well this place really knows how to have a party. We were at the Euphoria BDSM party last night and had another amazing night…

Plenty of people all having consensual fun. The place looked amazing. Thank you to the event host for such a spectacular night once again. Also thank you to the venue management for providing a great safe space.

Lots of people having fun on both floors. Can not wait for the next night.

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u/DJBJ3Kat — 1 month ago

Why do people do this

Why, why, why??
When you put up a post, or respond to someone else’s post with the answer they needed do they or others think it’s ok to contact you?
Why can you not just talk in the subreddit?!

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u/DJBJ3Kat — 1 month ago

Flamingos by day

Half way through our first ever weekday lunch trip to Flamingo’s and so far not disappointing.

All the men are behaving very well towards us in the main cinema lounge…

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u/DJBJ3Kat — 1 month ago

Flamingos is leading the charge

We were lucky enough to get tickets to the 80’s night at Flamingos, and just like on opening night this place was pumping.

Such a great cross section of people looking to get up to some naughty fun. We loved that most people got right into the 80’s themed night and dressed up. The acts were great the DJ was great, even if some of the songs were not actually 80’s music…

It is so nice to have a place that really thinks about who it wants to be there and really tries to make it a special night for all.

We are looking, and hoping, to checking this place out for a lunchtime visit this week to see what it’s like on a none party night.

Also looking forward to being back for their BDSM night next Saturday.

Thank you once again to the owners and all the staff too.

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u/DJBJ3Kat — 1 month ago

Thoughts on venue issues

So there have been a number of negative reviews that have come out over night with some of the single guys at Sydney sauna, which seem to be similar issues all SOP venues experience. Single straight guys that just don’t know how to behave. So I have been thinking on it and have come up with a possible solution.

I know this is not really a manageable solutions but most, if not all the issues seems to be single straight guys who just don’t know how to behave….

Perhaps they need to change the pay structure
All woman Free
Man with a female partner $20
Single bi or gay man $35
Single straight man $100

Hard to police I know but the higher price for the single straight guys would keep the troublemakers away.

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u/DJBJ3Kat — 2 months ago

Flamingos review

Well I know I said I would not post another review, but how can I not.
I know it was only Opening night but WOW.
THIS PLACE IS HOT.

It has lived up to all of the hype it has created over the past few months. The venues layout has been well thought of and well executed. The feel is amazing. The art work just beautiful.

I think the best thing about this place is that the owners and management have clearly set out to create a truly open to all space and feel.
Coupes will find this venue works for them if it is their first tentative trip or their 1000 they will feel right at home.

It was great to catch up with some people on here and put a face to the names. Was also great to see a view who truly will not allow bad behaviour and will deal with it appropriately straight away. Not that there was much at all of that bad behaviour because this place has totally been set up to attract the good eggs in this community.

We are looking forward to their theme nights including their BDSM night, Euphoria. As well as visiting sometimes on the weekdays during the day.

So happy to find another venue who truely listens to its intended patrons and truely cares.
Long live Flamingos.

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u/DJBJ3Kat — 2 months ago

So often you hear guys on here complaining that there are no couples or woman when they go to a SOP/adult cinema, or that the won’t play with them. Well guys here are 10 quick tips to help you get the best results at a venue.

  1. DON’T pounce on a couple or woman the second they walk in or follow them around like rats. Most woman and couples who go are looking to play, they just need time to adjust and get comfortable. If they don’t get comfortable they will probably turn around and leave. Don’t even talk to them or offer them a seat. Just give them a nod if you are wanting to play, they will come and find you if they want you.
  2. DON’T have a dirty Dick - Smelly dicks and dicks with cheese are not what others want to play with. You will just stuff up everyone’s chances of having fun.
  3. NO MEANS NO… I don’t know why we need to write this one, but as a couple who have visited many venues this still does not seem to be something that men understand.
  4. HAVE A SHOWER - be clean, smell clean no one will play with you if you fill the room up with your BO
  5. DON’T Keep asking - once the couple/woman has said no leave them alone. Don’t keep coming back and “checking”
  6. The couple/woman controls everything. They will let you know if they want to play with you and what they want.
  7. be honest with what you are willing to do - These places are mainly

gay cruising

  1. venues which are traditionally a safe space for gay and bi men. So often the couples who play there are also bi as such if you are not willing to play with the guy as well then you will probably not be what they want.

  2. DON’T block the doorway - if a couple has chosen to leave the door open to a private room it does not give you permission to enter or to block the door for others. You might not be what the couple is looking for, but the guy who you are blocking might be…

  3. have no expectations - just because a woman or couple go to a SOP does not mean they actually want to play. Often when guys expect that a woman will put out because she is there it’s a massive turnoff. Also don’t assume that the guy in the coupe is a cucked..

If more guys followed these simple rules then perhaps more couples would have more fun when they go and come more often.

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u/DJBJ3Kat — 2 months ago