u/DaddyMax1868

Stop comparing your 'behind-the-scenes' to everyone else's 'highlight reel' on social media. Everyone is fighting a different battle that you don't see. Your progress is your own, focus on your own pace, not someone else’s. Stay steady, bros.

I have formed a private, vetted Telegram group dedicated specifically to candaulism.

This space is intended for husbands who are active participants in this lifestyle and are looking for a community to share video content of their partners and engage in honest, constructive feedback.

Group Guidelines:
Active Participation Only: This is strictly for contributors. We are looking for members who are willing to regularly share content and engage in meaningful discussions. This group is not for silent readers or lurkers.

Requirements: You must be married and at least 28 years old.

Safety & Discretion: Mutual respect and privacy are our top priorities.

How to join:
If you meet the requirements and are interested in being an active member of this community, please send me a DM. Please include a brief introduction to ensure the group remains a good fit for everyone involved.

Looking forward to connecting with like-minded individuals.

"tahan saja" cultural expectations often pressure men to silently carry financial and family burdens without showing weakness. Consequently, many hide their pain or express it through anger or withdrawal, resulting in men making up the vast majority of local suicide deaths despite reporting lower rates of depression. Don't “tahan saja”, please speak out and seek help.

READ THE POST AND ONLY REPLY IF YOU MEET THE REQUIREMENTS.

We are a couple in KL looking for a bull who CAN HOST US (around Klang Valley) for the night and have fun, feel free to text us if you can.

What we are looking for:

Age: 25-45
Race: Chinese, Indian, Caucasian & etc (no Malay & Black)
Height: above 175cm (must be tall and decent-looking)
Tool: cut and average/above average size
Hygiene: must maintain good hygiene, well-trimmed, and have no BO.
Bi guys are welcome

Send your cut tool picture when you DM to make it easier for us to filter and choose.

ONE LINERS WILL NOT BE ENTERTAINED. SEND A PROPER INTRODUCTION IF YOU MEET THE REQUIREMENTS. WE ARE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE INTELLIGENT AND SMART, AND ABLE TO HOLD GOOD CONVERSATION. NOT LOOKING FOR HORNY DUMFAKS!

Any good-looking femboy, with a decent tool ready to play with a couple? Both top and bottom. Get in touch.

Any good-looking femboy, with a decent tool ready to play with a couple? Both top and bottom. Get in touch.

A lot of men look like they have it all together. They show up to work, they provide, they engage in the lifestyle, and they look strong. But inside? It’s a different story. Nobody asks if the ‘strong guy’ is okay.

Sometimes, the urge to swing, find a ‘side’ connection, or reinvent yourself on the alternative lifestyle isn’t just about sex, but it’s about a dopamine hit to numb a life that feels heavy. When we feel unheard at home or crushed by pressure, ‘The Lifestyle’ feels like an escape route to a world where we finally feel seen.