Is being a brat a girl only thing?

Hi. I'm nonbinary 27 (amab), Polyamerous. i like the more light side of bdsm like little space and such. I'm a switch. I can be both dom or sub. Caregiver or little. But i don't get to little often, my main partner worries about hurting me both emotionally and physically. Dispite having my safeword. And my other one is a total sub/little. So idk i feel like i should give up. I just want spanked when i missbehave. I want to be treated like a missbehaving child when i throw a tantrum because i died on a video game. (The more i type the more i wonder if this should go under venting lol) i want rewards for behaving. But i got one partner who doesn't like this stuff and one whos a little/sub. Idk should i give up trying to be little/sub?

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u/Daddy_Dragon_62 — 8 days ago