u/DeevFM

Your body is one of your biggest assets. That's a fact. Unfortunately though, life gets busy and in a lot of cases, you prioritize instant gratification instead of long-term thinking. You fall off, get lazy, don't eat well, hit plateaus and lose motivation. Or you're simply lucky enough to stay lean when you're young and assume that won't ever change. By the time you realize you're going in the wrong direction, it gets difficult to change your habits.

That's where being submissive comes in as a blessing. Your eagerness to please and obey can push through all of those difficulties. Knowing your Dom will inspect your body and look for the improvements in the long run can make you try harder. Wanting to maintain your right to have orgasms can put those hard workouts into a new perspective.

Of course, you need the right Dom. Not everyone finds this as exciting as I do. Part of my motivation is selfish: I want my sub to look the best for me. At the same time though, I'm somewhat of a service Dom who believes in mutually beneficial dynamics. I want to give you more than the joy of obeying and pleasing if you decide to offer your services to me. For me, these aren't empty promises to bait you into a dynamic that turns into something purely sexual after the first few weeks. That means you will be in good hands even if you have goals that will take a long time to achieve.

I'll give you an overview of the person I'm looking for. I'm flexible about a lot of things, but I have certain expectations you need to meet:

• skinny/normal/chubby figure. If your goal is losing a significant amount of weight, I'm not your man.
• your experience with fitness doesn't matter. You can be a complete beginner or someone who's already been working out regularly, has a plan, just needs a bit of support.
• your experience with kink/submission also doesn't matter. Again, you can be a complete beginner.
• daily interactions and time investment are a must. You can be busy sometimes, I don't intend to take away all of your free time, but I'm looking for more than occasional conversations.
• having a "try almost anything" attitude towards kink and a high sex drive are a huge plus.
• and lastly, I'm expecting progress photos. I'm likely to give you fitness challenges where you provide proof videos. I'm also expecting proof of most kinky tasks. If you absolutely love showing off to your Dom (and fit all the other criteria as well), you're the perfect candidate.

I didn't put a lot of emphasis on the kink part because I'm pretty sure we'll have at least a few shared interests (especially if you're as open-minded as I am). I'd much rather make sure we're on the same page about everything else. We will discuss this part in private anyway, but for now, let's focus on the underlying fitness component. When you reach out, make sure to tell me about your current fitness status and what your goals are. Just a few sentences (although, you can go into as much detail as you want, I will appreciate it). That way I'll know that you've read through the entire post and paid attention to the contents of it. Come, say hi and tell me about yourself.