(22M) For those who have/had a partner, how were you able to bring up your personality, fetishes, and kinks?

Apologies if this is not the right place to ask, but since we all share some common traits to our sexual desires, I want to know how to better represent myself to a person I’m currently dating or talking to.

I’ve held two relationships in the past, but I grew quite bored during them since both partners were extremely submissive and I was too shy to bring up that I’m a switch with X, y, and z kinks as it probably would’ve turned them off especially since I did not bring this up earlier.

I also found myself to never show my nerdy/gaming side as much to them. They obviously knew I liked to game, but I would never share this hobby with them despite it being my favorite. I would default to my more “normal” hobbies and sex talks without truly expressing myself.

Any advice on how you found a similar partner or how to be more comfortable/confident about what you like to them would be greatly appreciated! I live in the US and have never used dating apps, but I’m open to trying!

Artist @guitart124 on Instagram

u/Desperate_Winter3715 — 12 days ago

Look at this sexy little slut trying to farm and become “strong”~ Let me bring my party over so we can put you back in your place as our pathetic fuck toy~

u/Desperate_Winter3715 — 15 days ago

Miss u/EmiliaVampiress completely humiliated me even after being edged and weakened… I am just a pathetic loser who had my kinks of fandom, mixed wrestling, and cbt used against me 😖 I’m sorry to be cocky in your presence miss ❤️❤️ especially with these pathetic kinks

u/Desperate_Winter3715 — 19 days ago

M4F/TF Think you have what it takes to beat me in a duel?~ Or do you know you’ll lose and want to end up bent over like these cuties 🤭

Look for Deadlock (pref) or OW~

Art by Afrobull

u/Desperate_Winter3715 — 23 days ago

[M4F] Looking for adorable little sluts to build out my trophy collection. Think you have the courage to face this hot shot?~

Well well. After a decent amount of time lurking, commenting, and teasing duels - I am finally ready to make the jump and step into the arena! My goal is to remind many of you where your places are, beneath me and serving this young prince as he awaits his inevitable kingdom~

Throughout my research, l've seen many laughable delusions that I would like to erase from your pathetic silly minds~ bringing me to my game catalogue:

  1. Deadlock: For the brats spewing unrealistic goals such as "future viscount" of New York - let's take a trip to the Cursed Apple to show you how a real vampire leaves their opponents doll-eyed and helpless. Once your clothes are torn to shreds, we can see what your insides really feel like as well ;)

Other than a vampire duel, I am willing to play other heroes and since this is my main game, I am extremely versatile in finding ways to make your eyes roll back from desperation~

  1. Overwatch: Since Deadlock is not the most popular (for now) I am opening the door to Overwatch. Think you can handle this rough cowboy? Good. Challenge me so I can turn you into the DPS failure that you are, or my personal heal slut. If I'm kind, I'll let you chose which one you want to
    be~

  2. Marvel Rivals: Despite not liking the game (haven't played since season 2.5), seeing some posts has inspired me to start taking duels here. I want to prove how pathetic those kitty claws of yours are, and how you were destined to be a cock and blood sucking vampire~

Perhaps other people will motivate me to try other games, but l'd like to limit my choices to these 3 with Deadlock being the main priority.

Since I'm such a gentleman, I am willing to play a feeler game so that you can gauge my strength as an opponent. We can then adjust rules and stakes to make the duel fair for the both of us. What is a trophy worth if it comes too easily~

Excited to see all the pretty faces brave enough to challenge me. Just be ready for the humiliation that comes with being my very first trophy 😘

Artists: kaiske2, luminyu, shpo

u/Desperate_Winter3715 — 27 days ago

[M4F] Ranked is just not hitting the same anymore, care to try and entertain me in a duel?

Looking at all you cuties who think they have a chance.

Prefer Deadlock but will make an exception for OW or Val if you’re delightful enough~

Artist: kaiske2

u/Desperate_Winter3715 — 1 month ago

After leaving a snarky comment on u/LeakyMasoDoll ‘s post, I was flustered by her openings and pathetically lost 0-2 in C4. My arrogance of her power got me this shiny new curse :(

I will do better next time and get my revenge~

u/Desperate_Winter3715 — 1 month ago

(22M4F) A hyper competitive challenger arrives at the Cursed Apple, looking to find new ways to sin and build an empire.

Hey all,

This is my first post here as I’ve recently found this subreddit while looking for competitive and kinky fun. I loved the passion I saw, and I want to step up to the plate and make my mark in the long run while building fun rivalries~

Quick About Me
I know the title says hyper competitive, but this means I just want matches to feel fair and the way we get advantages are by making each other horny through teasing, lewdness, role playing, etc. I would love to set up unfair rules to make the match as fun as possible for both of us. I also enjoy playing until submission if time allows, but we can set a max cap on games as needed.

A little more on personality. I am new to all of this, so please be patient and understanding. I am just a cocky horny bastard, who had to study a ton during university and went to religious private schools growing up. I haven’t been able to explore this side of me at all and is why I’m here. I’m an engineer with a taller athletic build who got addicted to video games throughout the last 4 years. I was always competitive whether it be sports or gaming, and have always found mixed wrestling extremely hot regardless of who wins (if you were curious).

Alongside personality, I’m a very busy person who works two jobs which is why I am posting this early in the week so that we can schedule and play up something for the weekend. The only thing that will get me to stop responding is if you disrespect time or boundaries. I’ll also be going to bed shortly after I post my bad :)

Games
As for the games I’m seeking duels in, the major one will be Deadlock. I’m all over the art style for this game, the itemization and cast allow for some wild fun during duels and stakes, great modding community, and it’s been the game I’ve grinded the most recently.

In terms of other games, I would be open to rivals, overwatch, or Val, but I would need to be more encouraged to do so as I appreciate more elegant designs and fun foreplay instead of gooner bait found in the first two games (just personal preference).

Stakes
I am game for anything not extreme and that does not require too much real life effort/commitment as I travel a lot for work and again don’t live alone. My preferences are humiliation, shortish prize rounds (3-5 min), heal slutting/worshipping the victor, orgasm control, and light pain. We can discuss other stakes so we both have heavy incentives to win~

Okay now that you made it this far, if you’re interested and want to set something up, please message or comment and we can get the ball rolling. I look forward to fucking off in a new city together ;)

Artist: jhsuart, feiyuu, dawagoo_, ezium, jdotkdot5

u/Desperate_Winter3715 — 1 month ago

This pathetic puppy decided it was a good idea to challenge Queen U/TBAMSS in his first game of chess. Now he enjoys being treated like the loser he is with his shiny new toy 🐶

I hope this post pleased you Queen, now call me a good boy pant pant 😵‍💫

u/Desperate_Winter3715 — 2 months ago

22M4F First timer looking for an experienced challenger who will show me the ropes of wank battles

Introduce me to wank battles if you want a decent challenge - losing to a newbie will be embarrassing~

If it’s a lot of fun I will do more when I am available, looking for a battle later today. For stakes a like curses, posts, orgasm control, and more if you want to see my pinned post.

u/Desperate_Winter3715 — 2 months ago

Goddess u/Easy-Dealer-8941 put me in my place for the first time, and gave me some shiny new curses after losing in showdown😣

Mistress put me in my place so bad I did not expect her to be so good at pokemon, she had her way with me and showed me what it takes to not suck. She flips a switch and now I will be her obedient puppy and you guys get to have fun with me too :(.

u/Desperate_Winter3715 — 2 months ago