Is it weird to go to college bars for hookups after graduating ?
(M23) Hey! So I graduated last fall and now I’m looking for a job. But I feel like I missed out a lot in my college life. I had a lot of issues in my college years including losing a parent in sophomore year and then grandparents in senior year. Other than that, my mental health took a lot of toll. I joined a fraternity to make friends but it didn’t end well because of my mental health issues. I made 1 friend that too not close. I would go to classes and got honors but couldn’t socialize to make lifelong friends. Now I’m looking for a job and I’m wondering, I really wanna comeback here and go to college bars. Tbh my biggest insecurity is the FOMO of the hookup culture in college. I wasn’t super attractive in my college years, and even now I still have asymmetrical teeth (mildly deviated jaw and slanting neck) and I’m skinny, and most of these issues need treatment that’s expensive for a student life,so I know I’m not getting any play as of now from bars. I’m also not exceptionally good at socializing with strangers at bar, especially not when I mostly have to go to bars alone. I’m lost and this FOMO is hurting my head. Is it really weird of me that I want to come back to college bars and enjoy the hookup culture even if I’m in my job for next 2-3 years or not ?