u/Disastrous_Lime_6612

Hi everyone,

I recently met an adult ABDL who has introduced me to this world, and I’m trying to learn as much as I can before we meet in person for the first time next week.

I want to make sure the experience is enjoyable, respectful, and safe for both of us, so I have a few questions:

1. Before any little-space or roleplay begins, should we have a conversation about consent, boundaries, expectations, and any rules we’d like to establish?
2. How do most people transition into little space? Does that usually happen naturally, does the little handle things themselves, or is that something a Daddy typically helps with?
3. When the scene or caregiving time is over, is it common to have some kind of debrief or check-in afterward to talk about what worked, what didn’t, and how everyone is feeling?
4. For experienced Daddies/caregivers: what do you wish someone had told you when you were just starting out?

My biggest goal is to create an experience that feels safe, fun, and caring for both of us.

Thanks for any advice you can share.