would you feel insulted if your partner gave you test strips while you were in recovery
I’ll try to keep this short but basically my girlfriend opened up to me the other day after a big argument that she’s been using xanax and oxy. The xanax is a relapse after a few years of not using it, and it’s from the street so obviously could be very laced. She’s about a week or so clean and she only decided to tell me because she’s really really committed to not relapsing and getting better. And I believe her I really do I think she’s trying her absolute hardest and I know she can do it.
But I’m honestly absolutely terrified for her. I don’t want to insult her and have her believe that I don’t think she’s gonna make it far without relapsing. She blocked her dealer and doesn’t have any left in the house. I believe that she’s trying and doing it because SHE wants to be better. I just really don’t want one mistake in the future to be the reason I lose her, but like, I really do believe that she’s trying her best and I think she would be bummed in me “not believing in her” if I got her test strips??? And I know the best thing to do is to get them anyway, I really don’t want her to get laced but I need to figure out how in the world I’m going to bring this up to her in a sensitive way.