Is this a harem, or something different?
So, my sapient aliens are a TDSD (temperature dependant sexual determination) species, meaning hotter temperatures during gestation results in more female offspring. That being said, Korrinthia is a very warm planet, and therefore females outnumber males 10/1.
So, it has become standard practice in their society for females to be the dominant sex, and handle most of the roles which would (by earth's stereotypically patriarchal standards) typically be handled by the males; hunting, fighting, leading, etc. Meanwhile the males have taken on more of a defender/caretaker of the home & offspring role; they cook, clean, mend, maintain, and facilitate offspring.
Physiology, their culture views 'female' as the standard form of their species, and that 'male' is just a mutation of that base form which exists explicitly for the purpose of mating.
Now, with the exposition out of the way, let's get to the meat of the subject...
Due to the scarcity of males, females typically form "squads" -groups of between 4 &10 unrelated females whom share a bond of close friendship and often a mutual sexual attraction to one another.
But a squad is generally considered incomplete until they manage to draw a male into their polycule. Once they have a male the females will share the same sexuality with him that they share with one another, and he will be treated with very little difference than they do with any other member of the squad. (Outside of when they are seducing him into joining their squad, they dont really obsess or dote over him in particular, he's just there and participating.)
In fact, the only ways that he will be treated differently is in what roles he is allowed to fulfill when it comes to work, and only because the females are generally a little more protective of their male members due to the difficulty in attaining a their presence.
The reason I am asking if this is still a "harem" situation, is because the male is not the dominant factor in a squad, he has no particular authority and must comply with the squad leader just like every other member, he is literally just another member who has different body parts that facilitate the creation of offspring.
I checked the definition of a harem and it doesnt seem to fit most of the main parameters... So, what have I created here?
(Im genuinely curious what yalls opinion is! What do I even call this?)