25M here, and I absolutely love talking to and hooking up with older men. They know what they’re doing, what to say, and just act incredible. Some of these guys are married, and that makes it even hotter! Love being a dirty little plaything.
The problem comes after a while of chatting. Eventually, I wanna get to the point where we can take the fling a bit more seriously (an affair, not just a plaything), and other guys just don’t seem to go for it. Sure, they’re married, but if they were happy with their marriage they wouldn’t have talked to me in the first place. It’s made me not want to have fun with some guys anymore, which sucks because I feel like there could be some amazing opportunities out there.
Is there a better way I could be approaching this? Or should I just accept it and move on?