Wife seeks advice on marriage!
Hello everyone. I’ve been married for five years and, while we’re not perfect, I’ve always considered our marriage and sex life to be healthy. I’ve known that my husband occasionally watches porn, but since it isn’t daily, I never found it concerning. For context, we’re married, monogamous, and parents of two children.
Over the past four years we’ve incorporated various toys into our sex life, including larger ones recently. I’ve always been open to toys and different positions. However, my husband recently threw me a curveball. He has expressed insecurity about his size, and he recently suggested the idea of another man having sex with me while he films it. He mentioned the term “hot wife,” and I was completely caught off guard.
I realize this might sound out there, but I’m not sure what to do. I’m worried this could affect our marriage, especially given that we’re Catholic and made a vow as husband and wife. I’m not completely opposed to discussing it, but I’m really wondering where this is coming from. I suggested therapy, but he refuses to go. Am I being a nag? Am I wrong to feel so uncomfortable and put off by this?
I’m not even sure why I’m posting—maybe I just needed to vent and hear some opinions.
Am I wrong to consider this? Where can I find a big dick (his requirement) to join us and allow him to watch… please feel free to share. He does not want to be part of the sex act however would want to have sex with me after I have been “stretched out.”