Couple for Friends or more? Eventually?
Ok, so this will not make sense to everyone but if you take the time to read everything, then something may eventually come from this post.
I am a straight 34m living in Maricopa, AZ with my straight 44f wife. She does not know I am making this post. I have wanted us to have others join in the bedroom, but understandably she has concerns about trustworthiness and safety. With that said, I have specific ideas that could help get her to agree someday. Again, someday, not immediately.
What we have "drunkily" talked about before would need to meet the following criteria:
- Preferred first would be a mostly fit passable functioning transwoman that is bi so we could potentially both have some play. Yes, I know that is unlikely without paying but this would be the gold star. If you have a partner that would align with #2, even better since a couple would play into the hook option below.
- Next would be a "fitter than us" couple, but HWP will be accepted. My pics are visible, I have none of her but she is a bbw so take that as you will. The couple needs to be patient and experienced enough to not force the group issue. We have never done this, and without going into too much detail, would immediately fail before it starts if this is thrown out on day 1. If you are a small family with kids, then initial platonic meet & greets would be easy enough to pull off since i have 1 antisocial teen and a young daughter. Also a great thing if you are a contractor or experienced with home repair in accordance with the hook below.
- Even though we are both straight, the couple from #2 should be bi. I have thought about playing with a cock before, hence the trans in #1, and she is probably be more likely to play with a woman than a guy.
- Single guys will not be likely due to the intended meet & greet plan that will be written below.
As for how we would get everyone under the same roof: I need someone willing to do handyman work for the low-low price of the occasional couples/family gathering/dinner. I have a new build home from 2024 and have occassional small things that need fixed, small drywall cracks and such. I am too unable physically, poorly and admittedly lazily, to do these tasks myself but can't afford actual contractor/handyman fees. I work part time in a local home improvement store, so the hook would be that we met in the aforementioned store, you (and your wife) offered to come do said repairs for free (I would buy supplies as needed). To which I offered you/your family dinner like burgers or some cheap/easy food like that. Again, I am broke so no filet mignons here.
The goals after all this are any of the following:
- Decent friends for the wife to have over. She is a social person and she doesn't have the friendship circle she used to have before moving here. I am a gamer, so would eventually open up socially (public face and private face are 2 different things lol)
- EVENTUALLY, the (hopefully) experienced couple can slowly touch/bring up the topic of swaps or group plays. Again, bringing this up too early will kill everything in its tracks.
- You got a meal for doing some mostly easy tasks around the house.
Remember, this is not an immediate hook up. This will take time. If you don't like that, then move on.
If you have any questions, please feel free to ask. I would prefer images if you are comfortable enough to send them. Also, please indicate the professions you and your better half work in. If the wife has a chance of seeing you daily, the group play will never be an option.
Thanks for reading this far. Happy orgasms to you all!