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Is it fear of judgment, fear that they'll look at you differently, or just worrying it's too taboos/extreme for your relationship?

For those who finally built up the courage to confess-how did your partner actually react compared to what you expected?

Did they bring up something unexpected early on, or did you discover it by accident?

What was your immediate initial reaction, how did they explain it to you, and what was the turning point that made you comfortably roll with it (or even get into it yourself)?

When the honeymoon phase naturally passes and routine sets in, how do you keep the spark alive? What actually works for you and your partner over time?