u/Elfraepr

So Ive been browsing this sub and have been getting curious about getting caged, I’m a top not a bottom though and I can’t get limp enough to fit. I ordered a small off Amazon but I can’t get my head in the cage, let alone my balls, it’s one or the other with my kit I think, Ive never put one on so idk what I’m doing. Normally I stay about 2-3” soft and about 7-7.5” hard. Any advice? First is a few weeks old last is comparison of me and my cage.