Curious to hear from people who has or had manage to curate a feet play dynamic within a irl relationship be it , friends , acquaintance , roommate etc ? An how you have maintained or balance it with whatever your relationship with person is ?
Feel it could be interesting and also extremely helpful to large amount of people for insight.
This one a bit silly but I thought of because since I've began trying to explore feet I noticed I have few. "Lucky" foot sizes that im likely to get to see or touch and I'll explain.
When I say this I mean repeated guys who has the same feet size that responds similarly or positively to you asking to see their feet .
For me since 2018 up to now its been 13, 10 ,11,and 9S
I Dont ask to see guys feet often nor have I paid for majority overall feet stuff I've seen but if I meet someone and I'm curious about their feet or attracted to them and they have one of these foot sizes its been a pattern of positive results than not .
If you have a different lucky foot size for internet stuff share it to (for me its been 13 and 11 online)
Irl more 10-9
What about for yall ? Curious to know
Hey guys , I was sitting here thinking and thought about the few times I could've gotten a footplay encounter but didn't .
There's a sense of a regret at times. Being real, but at the same I also think about the things that contribute to my decision .
One of my stories from last year reference this scenario with a sock smelling and foot massage interaction.
In hingesight I know almost for certain he would have been down with me licking his feet at the time base off how he reacted and vibes , but didn't.
Because they was coworker and we worked same shift (too many variables)
In other instances too where guys found me attractive enough to likely engage with but would probably expect sex to happen from which it wouldn't. Because its not a entry way to that for me.
I say all this to say to maybe spark a discussion and gets some people thinking .
Has there ever been moments where you almost unquestionably had the social que and environment to play with guys feet fully ( licking etc) but didn't because of one the many factors that can stop someone in the moment from acting on it?
If so , what was it for you if you're open to sharing.
Looking forward to talking with yall .
PS - if your curious about the car story time just scroll on my post , it involves massaging .
This may be an unpopular opinion and I honestly dont give af.
But something I recognized that really annoys me is how anytime there's a situation where a guy who likes the feet of someone who is unaware of mens feet fetish ,or the feet world entirely it often ends up with the server trying to turn that guy into a footmaster, cashmaster,findom etc . Its annoying.
I dont think that every man who's not into feet or even aware of mens feet fetish thats open to interactions need to be one.
I feel like this fixation on the characature takes away the humanity of the experience.
Because something that can be natural now all the sudden has this added weight of being a performance of some sort just because a guy is receptive to the feet communities that exist. Which turns A LOT of men off , coming from someone who just happen to have had most of my encounters with guys of different sexualities than mine.
Let people be themselves , a lot of feet lovers be setting themselves up to never exp anything because quite frankly, they make it a chore to engage with them . Especially if its fully feet based . If a guy so happens to be more closer to those things personality wise, sure have it if you know they'll entertain it.
But if they dont let that be okay too.
Every men thats comfortable with men admiring their feet isn't a dom.
Every guy thats open to someone touching their feet isn't gonna be a dom.
Every guy that's willing incorporate feet play in their friendship dynamic isn't gonna a dom type.
If anything theirs more guys that are opposite that will indulge the most.
Every footplay dont need to be performative is all im saying.
If anything, I feel like this obsession with performance is why so many of the stigmas around mens feet being played with still exist to a point, anyone that has been in spaces knows what Im talking about with the assumptions people have with people who like feet specifically mens feet
Uploaded a post about not getting to exp anything so far to a lot of what's harrowing happening in world.
Curious to hear of anyone whose had feet interactions this year and if so , the context , and how it happened if someone wants to share
There is a lot of bad stuff going on in the world right now unless you're living under a rock . An it really has compromised many things , and feet play is one of them.
Or is just me , I had to postpone on 3 potential meets early this year because of this and its only becoming more harder I feel to people stress and obligations increasing to regardless if you want to do the servicing action or be serviced,you got to postpone them.
Still haven't gotten any feet interactions yet due to stuff like this at any given moment, God forbid you live in complicated environments
In US atleast these unworkable cities intensify it , makes to where even something as relief can lead to being a big investment from getting a host spot , driving , scheduling , and meeting to build comforts idk , is it just me that feels exhausted by this?
Hey yall , its been awhile if you're familiar with my posts.
I just wanted briefly talk on how foot play / foot worship (whatever you like to do) is often hard for so many people.
One thing I've recognized over the years is people lack of confidence to own due to social stigma typical from the person thats "servicing" and how their recipient loves plausible deniablity with enjoying the act.
You see plenty of stories from people sharing how difficult it is to not only find people to indulge with on either side or maintain them .
Something thats prominent in these situations is misaligned intentions .
Their are many guys that only see footplay as a entryway (foreplay) to sex whilst their guys that just want the experience without the pressure of that happening.
Be it the server or recipient , its not a issue by itself but it is in many instances because people dont disclose that and their expectations for what their hoping for when they talk to ppl about it . Whether your the guy trying to connect with someone to service to indulge you or the guy wanting to be service , or the guy that complicit to the world entirely and are introduced to it by the approach of one of these people .
Do agree with my observation , why do think footplay is so hard for people to communicate and find people thats aligned with their desires?
I've had pretty consistent access to personal feet videos online when I want to and sometimes, irl.
What's the most free content you've gotten with someone over the years it was a friend who knows of your interest , a foot fetishist , some online friend, etc
For example, I received content from a friend for a few years - from irl shoots and things sent - have 300 plus of media between videos and pictures
There friends who sent me stuff that I lost over the years sadly but overall I have had a few long lasting online or irl friends who's feet I seen 100s of times in some way regardless of sexuality , race , upbringing.
Curious if anyone else share this experience