Part 2: Becoming my straight friend’s finsub
In a previous post, I told you how I slowly introduced my friend to domination (he spat in my cup and asked me to share my Snapchat location “immediately,” which honestly turned me on).
A lot has actually happened since then because I ended up telling my whole friend group about my kinks (girls included). I’ve known them for years, they know my personality, and I live in a country where kinks and sex aren’t really huge taboos, so we tend to speak pretty openly.
I didn’t expect them to react so positively. We’re a friend group of a little over 10 people, with around 60% guys. I literally told them I’d like to lick their feet (the screenshot is in French, but my friend is basically saying he’s glad I can talk so openly about my kinks).
Two or three friends even told me they’d be fine doing some of those things with me (like spitting in my cup, letting me massage their feet, etc.).
However, I also mentioned paying for things for them. They didn’t seem against it, but they didn’t seem particularly interested either. A couple of them even said they don’t really see it as domination, but more as just being nice.
They haven’t really brought it up since or asked for anything else, so I’m not really sure what to do next. They don’t seem embarrassed — they’re mostly very laid-back people (maybe slightly shy about asking for anything) — but I also don’t want to push the idea or annoy them.
I know it’s a crazy story, and I realize I’m lucky to have such open-minded straight friends 😂 But now I honestly don’t know what to do next. What would you recommend?