Casual but exclusive… is that too much to ask?
I know this might sound weird to some people lol but does anyone else prefer an “exclusive” online FUBU/FWB setup?
Like not a relationship naman, and not looking for commitment either, but I realized I can’t do the whole random freaky-and-go dynamic 😭 I need some kind of rapport or connection with the person first. Kahit ganon yung setup, I still want us to actually talk, vibe, be comfortable with each other, maybe even become online friends ganon.
Parang mas easier for me to be in the mood kapag comfortable ako sa kausap ko instead of straight up puro sexual agad. And exclusive din preference ko — isa lang kausap ko at a time. I’ve been in this setup for almost 3 months na pero parang hindi sila tumatagal 😓 Usually okay naman sa umpisa, tapos biglang magiging puro freaky nalang or mawawala na entirely. Like damn… sayang naman humor ko and chikas😔🤚🏻
And honestly… ang sad minsan pag gabi na HAHAHA 😭 Like you don’t necessarily want a boyfriend, but you also don’t want to feel disposable or parang convenience lang. Parang landi, tension, comfort, late-night talks, exclusivity… without the pressure of a full relationship.
And before someone says “get friends” — I HAVE friends and my own COF 😭 pero syempre… malalandi ba nila ako pag 10PM na? HAHAHAHAHA
I’m genuinely not looking for a relationship right now either, pass muna talaga. That’s why casual setups work for me in theory 😭 I just wish people understood that casual doesn’t automatically mean cold, detached, or purely sexual lang.
Am I the only one who likes this kind of setup? Or do other people experience this too? Ang fantasy ko ba ay reality nyo? 😭
About me I guess? HAHAHAHA
23F. Clean girl daw yung vibe ko until I open my mouth 😭 Height is 165cm, slim, decent-looking, kanal humor, hindi dry kausap, and unfortunately very chikadora once comfortable HAHAHA