u/Flaky-Palpitation101

(For context, i live in the boys hostel of a residential Uni)

I (19M) started uni last year. During the early months, I confessed to my group of friends that I have had an embarrassment/humiliation kink for the longest time, and being embarrassed turns me on.

Now it escalated, and i made another post on here, which you can refer to if you want more context. But basically, last couple of months, I have been humiliated and embarrassed by my friends and a few others.

I find it hard to say no, because of multiple reasons. And this humiliation fetish had turned into a submission fetish.

But someone recently posted on a confession page of my uni, the following.

“(my name) ko humiliation kink h aur usse kuch log nanga humiliate krte h. He is a slut, and does every pathetic shit. I have literally seen him naked infront, while 5 people were making fun of him”

And now, everyone knows. My insta exploded, people (girls also), asking if it’s true. There are rumours floating, and i just had to deactivate my insta.

On one hand i dont want to become a laughing stock or ruin my life, on the other, i have also enjoyed parts of it.

What can i do to ease this situation?

Wont go into details here, but I (19M) at the start of my 1st sem last year, while playing truth or dare confessed that I have a humiliation kink, and I get aroused if I am humiliated or embarrassed,due to past experience.

They have associated it with bottom or submissive behaviour and they sometimes treat me like that. Its not the case, but it still turns me on cuz its embarrassing.

And lately it has gotten out of hand, and i get scared about my social anxiety and self respect. But I find it hard to say no sometimes, and its embarrassing but I do like it.

I live in a residential university, so it’s constant, and I dont know what to do. I am very confused.

What should I do. Currently I have no problem but I fear it could get bad. I am unable to control it, and too weak to set boundaries. Tell ???

I’m not sharing any incidents or details in post as I dont want to risk getting recognised here, but if you need more details to answer, I can share…

Wont go into details here, but I (19M) at the start of my 1st sem last year, while playing truth or dare confessed that I have a humiliation kink, and I get aroused if I am humiliated or embarrassed,due to past experience.

They have associated it with bottom or submissive behaviour and they sometimes treat me like that. Its not the case, but it still turns me on cuz its embarrassing.

And lately it has gotten out of hand, and i get scared about my social anxiety and self respect. But I find it hard to say no sometimes, and its embarrassing but I do like it.

I live in a residential university, so it’s constant, and I dont know what to do. I am very confused.

What should I do. Currently I have no problem but I fear it could get bad. I am unable to control it, and too weak to set boundaries. Tell ???

I’m not sharing any incidents or details in post as I dont want to risk getting recognised here, but if you need more details to answer, I can share…

Wont go into details here, but I (19M) at the start of my 1st sem last year, while playing truth or dare confessed that I have a humiliation kink, and I get aroused if I am humiliated or embarrassed,due to past experience.

They have associated it with bottom or submissive behaviour and they sometimes treat me like that. Its not the case, but it still turns me on cuz its embarrassing.

And lately it has gotten out of hand, and i get scared about my social anxiety and self respect. But I find it hard to say no sometimes, and its embarrassing but I do like it.

I live in a residential university, so it’s constant, and I dont know what to do. I am very confused.

What should I do. Currently I have no problem but I fear it could get bad. I am unable to control it, and too weak to set boundaries.