Can it take months 4 reluctant Dom Lover to embrace sub into chastity?
Been with my amazing new lover/Dom for five months. He said he’s kind of willing to explore being a keyholder, and often wears the key around his neck and he says he likes the way that it feels close to his heart. Yet he seems reluctant to be more dominant and teasing me and playing with me while I’m locked. He’s kind of old-school and thinks that when men have sex both need to climax at the same time. I’ve said that’s not at all necessary and how much I love love servicing him.
Almost daily I remind him how much I love him and how important he is to me. Tell him I love servicing him whatever he wants me to which is a couple of times a week. I’m now approaching my third week being totally locked and no climax. We’re taking a trip this weekend and that’s when I’ve suggested that maybe he might give me a full climax. He smiles and says we’ll see.
So each man is different, at least he’s giving us a try. It’s definitely a kink I enjoy, so I guess I need to continue to remind him how much it means to me, and how it really does enhance our love.
Sound like a reasonable plan?