u/GayHornyChemist

My uncle and I haven’t ever been particularly close but growing up he lived about an hour away so I’d see him several times a year. I’ve had a crush on him forever, he’s very fit and handsome and I’d see him a lot shirtless at a family lake house. Nowadays I’ll see him at holidays and we’ll talk on the phone on my birthday. Last time we’d talked was on my birthday a few months ago.

He called me out of the blue the other day, I wasn’t available at the time so he left a message and said he’d like to catch up and ask me about my recent move and starting a new job out of college. I called him back yesterday and during that he made some comments about wanting to come visit me and that I should call him if I ever needed anything and it just gave me a certain feeling that he might be attracted to me, but I also feel like that might just be me hoping that he is and manufacturing it. He’s told me before that he’d like to have me come stay with him too.

As far as I know, he doesn’t know I’m gay. I’ve never told him, it’s possible that my dad has, or that he’s guessed it. And as far as I know, he’s straight, he was married to a woman for around 30 years and has a girlfriend now.

I’m just not really sure how to approach this to let him know that I’m into him if he’s interested but also not make things weird if I’m misreading the situation .